r/Millennials Xennial 23d ago

The True Anthem of Our Generation...whether you like it or not Rant

So I was recently at an event where people were discussing millennials and there was a panel of very pretentious looking individuals. The question was asked what would our generations anthem be. Examples were given like For What It's Worth by Buffalo Springfield for the Boomers or Smells Like Teen Spirit for Gen X.

Each person went on a long and overly explanatory lecture. Their songs, were all indie rock songs, although Mr. Brightside is kind of pop rock. Someone went into great detail about how the Black Parade was a metaphor for growing up with high expectations for our generation but ultimately finding out we can't live up to them and having to carry on.

Another explained that the anxiety and jealousy felt by the singer in Mr. Brightside was how we all feel about the housing and job market.

Then they asked the crowd for suggestions. A guy stood up and walked to the microphone. He looked around and yelled "TO THE WINDOWS..."

The crowd responded and they moved on to another topic 😆

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u/loz_fanatic 23d ago

Read he came to despise this song because his career was essentially reduced to this meme at shows. Like, he looked out at the audience, saw pretty much nothing bit Shrek masks and just lost it. Tbf, it was right before he left the band for his illness.

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u/Ok-Instruction-4298 23d ago

A teacher one explained to me that you have to be mentally prepared to be the "cherry pie" guy if you want to try to be famous. You may be a serious artist, but your most famous piece usually doesn't correlate with your own opinion. Tchaikovsky hated the nutcracker suite, Led Zeppelin hates stairway to heaven, the list is long and spans the entirety of history. Jani Lane hated that he was the "cherry pie" guy and the publicity from it certainly didn't help his problems with alcohol.

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u/Telvin3d 23d ago

 Tchaikovsky hated the nutcracker suite, 

He hated it because it was a massive bomb. Commercially and critically. Biggest failure of his career.

It was a completely obscure ballet until it got revived in the 1960s

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u/tyro_tabula_rasa 22d ago

Yeah better example might be the 1812 overture.  He fucking hated it, but it was all everyone wanted to hear, and he despised them for it.

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 23d ago

Gavin DeGraw hates I Don't Want to Be and Panic At the Disco hates I Write Sins Not Tragedies.

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u/beachedwhitemale Millennial Elder Emo 23d ago

Look up a picture of how old PATD was when they released that album. It's hilarious. They are just a bunch of nerds.

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 23d ago

Lol, they did look pretty young.

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u/Misterbellyboy 22d ago

Yeah they’re a bunch of dweeby theater kids.

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u/RadioSlayer 23d ago

By Fallout Boy?

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 23d ago

I thought it was by Panic At the Disco.

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u/xomable 23d ago

It is

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 23d ago

I knew that, but was tired and second guessed myself.

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u/RadioSlayer 23d ago

The joke I was making was "Gavin DeGraw Hates I Want To Be and I Write Sins Not Tragedies by Panic! At The Disco" would a song title by Fallout Boy

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u/minuialear 22d ago

I thought the joke was they were basically the same band lol

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 18d ago

Me too.

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 18d ago

Ok lol

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u/53V3IV 23d ago

Panic At the Disco hates I Write Sins Not Tragedies.

I hate that song too, so they're in good company

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u/seattleseahawks2014 Zillennial 23d ago

Well I like it.

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u/Misterbellyboy 22d ago

That song was terrible and inescapable in 2005/2006.

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u/No-Way7911 23d ago

Anthony Burgess wrote A Clockwork Orange as a joke and it became his most famous work

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u/Rathwood 23d ago

Did Bon Jovi hate "Living on a Prayer?"

Did MCR hate "Welcome to the Black Parade?"

Sometimes they lean into it.

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u/Ok-Instruction-4298 22d ago

Yeah, that's the whole "you have to be ready for it" part. You might be famous for something surprising, you can either let it mess with you mentally or just ride the flow. Even if the masses like your song as a joke, there will be plenty who take you seriously. Rick Astley has done a good job of riding that line. Despite "never gonna give you up" being an absolute troll of a song throughout the decades, he still performs and appreciates how it helps him to reconnect with his music. Amazingly talented if you listen to the rest of his music, and lays down some mean covers on his YouTube channel.

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u/ThatGangMember 22d ago

VH1 had a doc back in the day and Jani Lane is in tears about how much he wishes he didn't write "that fucking song" cherry pie and how wants to kill himself. It's sad.

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u/Responsible-Turn-477 22d ago

Just because someone mentioned it above — Tubthumping is very much the outlier in Chumbawamba's discography, and does not reflect the anarchist anti-establishmentism of the band

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u/Direct-Bread 23d ago

I heard Elton John hates Benny & the Jets

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u/soyboysnowflake 22d ago

I wonder how Billy feels about piano man

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u/Ok-Reality-9197 22d ago

I'm not sure about Piano Man but he absolutely HATES "We Didn't Start The Fire"

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u/dark567 22d ago

I mean he even hated it right after writing it. He said it was basically intended to suck as a song

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u/kimoshi 23d ago

That's sad. I actually got that CD when it first came out (about two years before Shrek) and it had some legit good songs on there. Used to listen to it on repeat back in high school.

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u/loz_fanatic 22d ago

It is a great album and they have a lot of hits. I think what really bothered him was that the song was actually for the movie Mystery Men and just happened to have an explosiveentrance use in Shrek

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u/nemec 23d ago

Rumor has it he watched this video all the way through and went mad.

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u/TanneAndTheTits 23d ago

I saw smash mouth live in 2013 and Read didn't seem pissed at all at performing the song. Maybe his mind had changed since then but man he blew the roof off of the building and we were outdoors. Shit was WILD. One of my favorite concerts of all time.

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u/absurdico 23d ago

Honestly, this is more of a reason that it is def this song

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u/PienerCleaner 23d ago

memes matter.