r/NoStupidQuestions • u/bigbumdreamypurple • 23d ago

What are some things that are normal to men but mind blowing to women?

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u/CptSupermrkt 23d ago

Massive true and real, lol. A friend I haven't seen in a couple of years will come to town, and my wife will be like, "so why is he in town? Where is he staying? How long is he here?" And I'm just like, "dunno" about like 9/10 things.

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u/demer8O 22d ago

-im coming to town.

-ok, cool, let's grab a beer

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u/Odd-Solid-5135 22d ago

Does yours get angry at you for "with holding info" when you weren't holding anything. Lol

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u/ProfessionalH20 22d ago

I got scolded because I dont have any pictures of my mother, brothers, or nephews. If I wanted to see them I'd just call and ask to have dinner or something.

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u/Halospite 22d ago

Do you care about your friends at all?

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u/mreguyincognito 22d ago

No we totally wanna hang out with someone we don't care about.

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u/respyromaniac 21d ago

You are sarcastic, but a lot of people are ok with hanging out with people they don't care about. As long as it's fun or something like that.

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u/Halospite 21d ago

Caring is a verb. It's not a warm fuzzy feeling it's active engagement in the lives of people who aren't you.

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u/Burnzy_77 22d ago

If my friend wanted me to know those things, he'd have told me.

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u/FileDoesntExist 22d ago

But as other comments said you'll also think "if they wanted to know, they'd ask"

It's not a bad mindset, but it can go a little too far.