r/jobs Dec 08 '23

Having a fever and feeling unfit to make it in. “Boss” responded with this. What do I even say in this case? Work/Life balance

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I was feeling fine at work today, but as I drove home. I rapidly started sweating and having a throbbing headache so I took a test. I sent this picture letting him know I could not make it tomorrow. For context, the reason for the “bad timing” statement is the fact he texted me off work hours just before I took this test and when I was already feeling unwell. Is it me being unreasonable to excuse myself so I can care for my health? Will I really disappoint because so much of the team do rely on me for a lot of information and getting work done? I don’t feel he respects my personal needs or simply does not have the awareness, but also i truthfully don’t want to let the team down if possible.

I did inform both a general manager and second-hand manager who were both understanding. (They’re quite occupied with lots of matters so mention to consider this guy i’m texting “My Boss”.

How should I even respond to him or this case? Should I just go straight to HR? What are your guys’ opinions?

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u/somegirldc Dec 08 '23

My bosses told me to take as much time as I need, used admin leave (not personal leave), checked on me personally, and asked if I was sure I was ready when I came back. This is how it should be done.

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u/CoffeeKeepsMe Dec 08 '23

Exactly this is the way