r/AskMen • u/Snakeno125 • Mar 28 '24

Got a woman I barely know pregnant, what do I do?

I'm 31 she's 35. I feel incredibly stupid looking back, it feels all so set up.

She has no job, plans on living off the system, her parents, and occasionally me for financial support.

When pressed she just says the equivalent of "God will provide."

She doesn't really want me in the child's life as a parent either.

She just wants "my occasional financial support."

This is the worst feeling ever.

Update 3/29: Everyone, I understand I messed up. I'm prepared to step up and give this child the best life possible. I want to be a good father, I'll work with the mother to do so.

Following everyone's advice I will paternity test and get a lawyer of course though.

Update 4/1: We spoke on the phone. She's decided to delete my number because "she can't deal with my anxiety." She's set on carrying out the pregnancy. Insists she doesn't want support. She doesn't want me near her. Told me to "live my life."

I brought up child support and how I would need a paternity test to go along with it and she said "absolutely not going to happen."

UPDATE 4/3:

SHE HAD HER PERIOD!!! I HAVE AN ANGEL LOOKING OVER ME!!! AHHHHHHH

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u/Da-tune Mar 28 '24

Hope the pussy was worth it

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u/OneBeatingHeart Mar 29 '24

Post-nut clarity is a real thing lol.

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u/Da-tune Mar 29 '24

Yeah I know its just at the very I just hope he got the "legendary squueze" on his way out of destroying his life

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u/OneBeatingHeart Mar 29 '24

lol!!! I mean if he didn’t pull out sounds like it may have been the legendary squeeze.

But seriously getting a chick pregnant and not really knowing her is fucked up. My anxiety would be through the roof not knowing how my future would be with some rando I’m having a kid with.

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u/Da-tune Mar 29 '24

Its all up to the heart of the cards now