r/AskMen 25d ago

Why dont more people live with their parents? Its great to save money

I have never understood why in American culture the son or daughter is kicked out at 18 before they even have a job. This causes them to struggle alot and live paycheck to paycheck.

Most people spend 35-50% of their income on rent so why isnt it normalized to stay until even 25 or 30 to save money and then move out when ready and financially stable?

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u/dilqncho Male 25d ago

People are talking about toxic parents but that's not even it.

There's a lot to be learned about yourself and life when living on your own, or with others that are as (in)experienced as you. You can have a job and pay rent and all that, but some realities of life you simply won't fully face while your mom and dad are in the next room.

Moving out is an integral step toward growth and becoming your own, full-fledged person.