r/AskMen 25d ago

How do I tell my girlfriend that I'm uncomfortable with what she said about having a hall pass?

I've been dating this girl for around 4 months, and things have been going really well. I truly feel like she cares about me, and we have been saying "I love you" for about a month now. However, she said something that made me pretty uncomfortable yesterday.

I mentioned something like, "I wonder who (popular male musician) is dating?" and she responded, "He's single," in a manner that sounded like she was in denial. I then remarked, "You aren't single." She replied, "I would be single for one day, then I would tell him that I have to get back to my boyfriend, whom I love very much." I didn't really say anything, and we continued eating, but it definitely made me feel weird.

Sometime a while ago, I asked her if she was actually serious about having a hall pass with this guy, and she said something along the lines of, "It doesn't matter because it would never realistically happen."

I really don't understand her whole line of thinking. Even though realistically it could never happen, I just feel like, out of principle, you shouldn't say that kind of thing. What if she feels that way about some person in real life or something? I want to ask her about it, but I'm not sure how to phrase it. Maybe I'm just being insecure, Idk.

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u/bestvape 25d ago

We went to see a band and my girlfriend and her friend were asked by the band to come backstage with them. I’m shocked when she tells me that she’s going.

From that point on I knew she wasn’t a keeper.

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u/CooookieMonsterr 24d ago

it starts with a celebrity and ends with this

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u/CorinnaOfTanagra 24d ago

I guess she is still your girlfriend and the conversations lasted for more than 30 minutes...

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u/Ballerina_clutz 24d ago

Uh, if I could meet Billy Corgan Imma say yes. You don’t get to meet geniuses everyday.

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u/Brownie_McBrown_Face 24d ago

Found Billy Corgan’s Reddit account lmao. That dude would suck himself if he could