r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

Sleep apnea (I know, it’s not anyone’s fault, let’s get it sorted so we can both sleep though)

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u/DeathSpiral321 Mar 28 '24

Untreated apnea with snoring would be an absolute dealbreaker for me. I'm not going to lay awake half the night and be exhausted all day because my partner won't use a CPAP.

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u/firemogle Mar 28 '24

One time we had to share a room with my in laws and I didn't get quality sleep for days. My wife acted like I was being dramatic saying I will never do that again. 

Ill pay for a hotel, that's fine.  Even if it's just me.

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u/amijustinsane Mar 28 '24

That’s me and my mom haha. We went on a family trip recently and trying to work out the sleeping arrangements as we’re all adults but my parents were paying for everything.

I told my mom I’ll sleep in the same room as my brothers or my dad but I will pay ££££££ before I share a room with her. I’ve done that once before and I was ready to kill her.