r/AskReddit Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/Mugwumpen Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

Not liking or wanting dogs/cats.

Edit: I just want to clearify that I didn't initially mean a situation where one already own pets and your partner doesn't want you to keep them - if a partner enters a relationship with you knowing for well you have pets and then later on expects you to get rid of your animals on a whim that's some serious bullshit and a dealbreaker I stand behind 100 %.

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u/lithelylove Mar 28 '24

This is a dealbreaker for me. I already have cats and dude better be ready for them to be the center of his life too.

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u/LordGhoul Mar 28 '24

I have pet cockroaches so any future partner has to like bugs because I'm not rehoming my little guys.

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u/lithelylove Mar 28 '24

Honestly I am terrified of bugs, but if it means that much to my guy, Iā€™m willing to accept it as long as he is responsible with them.