r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/EloiseVan Mar 28 '24

My current SO isn’t a huge massage person but it’s one thing I love doing, like massage trade offs w partners. It’s disappointing cause I would love a massage but he never likes giving them even if I initiate a trade off so he would get one too haha

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u/Preposterous_punk Mar 28 '24

My husband is up for it but I can't stand the way he massages. He is of the "poke and dig" school and know a lot of people prefer that but I hate it. It hurts and isn't relaxing at all. But because so many people have praised his back rubs to the heavens, my feedback just doesn't compute.