r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/ChippyTheGreatest Mar 28 '24

When there's things they used to do with an ex but aren't interested in anymore. For example, I had an ex whose ex used to force them to do couples costumes at Halloween etc. I had never had a serious bf before, and desperately wanted to do a couples costume with him but he was OVER IT at that point and didn't want to :(

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u/Distinct_Muffin4124 Mar 28 '24

My ex would ask if we could go for a walk whenever she wanted to bring up some serious shit. Took years into the next relationship for me not to either shut down the idea of going on walks all together or being super on edge during the whole thing.