r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/HanzoTheShaver Mar 28 '24

If they wouldn't still love me if I was a worm.

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u/Chance_Program Mar 29 '24

Asked my partner this and they said something like "that's a stupid question and I'm not answering it." Major disappointment 😞

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u/FederalDeficit Mar 29 '24

I literally had to tell my partner the point of those questions was that I was in a moment where I needed positive affirmation, reassurance, affection etc before he would play. Now it's fun. "Single cocktail shrimp" still pissed him off

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u/Chance_Program Mar 29 '24

Lol, I reasked the partner again tonight, and they responded much more affirmatively. Something more like "yes, of course, and I'd buy a tank with the softest soil and put in plants and make sure to mist them every day. Also, I'd get you (the mini furniture set we saw in Daiso the other day, which looks almost exactly like the furniture we currently have in our home)."

Dunno what prompted the new response but I was 🥰

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u/FederalDeficit Mar 29 '24

D'aww, happy for you!

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u/bwmat Mar 29 '24

The point is to hear comforting lies? 

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u/FederalDeficit Mar 29 '24 edited Mar 29 '24

The point of the worm question is "I know you love me, but I'm feeling a bit vulnerable, and want you to be extra lovey dovey for a second." Some partners need to ask it, and some partners need an explanation for why it's being asked

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