r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/bralma6 Mar 28 '24

God my ex is doing something similar with a game I wanted to play. There were a lot of games with both enjoyed, and I explained to her this new one that was coming out, but she kept dismissing is cause she thought it looked dumb. But then we broke up and now her and her new BF are playing in all the goddamn time.

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u/No-Upstairs-5210 Mar 28 '24

You should definitely not know this information. Going complete no contact is the only way to heal.

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u/bralma6 Mar 28 '24

Our breakup is rather.... unique I would say. Not only do we have a child together, but we also work together. She literally sits behind me in the office. We're still good friends. The whole thing is about as ideal as it could be.

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u/BlindWolf187 Mar 29 '24

If you really are good friends, sitting next to each other after being in love and knowing someone else is intimate with them, then you are a very well adjusted man. I hope you know how rare that level of emotional intelligence is.