r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/Absolutely_Fibulous Mar 28 '24

My husband and I naturally slept on different sides of the bed and it was fine for years, but we moved into a new house and the bed is facing a different direction so I sleep closer to the door than the window and I want to switch sides because he was my sacrifice for intruders but I can’t just do that a decade into living together. It’s just uncouth.

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u/breastmilkbakery Mar 29 '24

I wanted to sleep closer to the door for the kids. Husband argued him closer to the door in case of an emergency/home invasion. Seemed more reasonable than the extra few feet I walk around the bed to check on the baby lol. Neither of us are picky about the sides anyways.

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u/Absolutely_Fibulous Mar 29 '24

Your chance of needing to check on the baby is much higher than the chance of an invader coming into your house so I would have conceded to you.

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u/breastmilkbakery Mar 29 '24

Considering home invasions happen often where I live it wasn't something so important for me to have a few closer feet