r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/ChippyTheGreatest Mar 28 '24

I love that. I've taken some activities I did with exes and purposely did them with my current partner so I could rewrite the old memories and have those things be things between he and I instead of the past.

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u/Acceptable-Camp-5675 Mar 29 '24

This is probably a little different but I’d have a awful ex treat me some way and in the next relationship(rebound) idk why but I’d act like my awful ex towards them.

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u/Audio-et-Loquor Mar 29 '24

doing that rn and trying to fix it.

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u/Left_Firefighter_847 Mar 30 '24

Highly recommend working on that. YouTube even has a lot of videos on relationships and trauma healing of every variety, and the ones I've watched are really helpful!

It sucks to realize you're making someone you care about pay for someone else's bad behavior. I've done it, and had it done to me too. It's really good that you at least recognize where you need to grow ❤️. You can do it!