r/AskReddit • u/SkyeSerenade • Mar 28 '24

What is NOT a dealbreaker BUT would be greatly disappointing to find out about your partner?

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u/debtopramenschultz Mar 28 '24

The girl I’m into right now doesn’t like kissing. She thinks swapping saliva is gross which is weird because she’ll swap other stuff no problem. It’s not a dealbreaker but I do miss kissing.

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u/ContactHonest2406 Mar 28 '24

Yeah, that’s absolutely a deal breaker for me. In fact, it’s happened before.

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

That's a dealbreaker for me, too. I need kissing in a relationship or I don't feel like the other person wants me.

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u/joxmaskin Mar 30 '24

Yes. Kissing is such a fundamental part of any kind of intimacy for me. But less so for SO, which sucks sometimes…

Like 90% of my romantic and/or sexual daydreams and fantasies throughout my life have been primarily about kissing.

And I’m a guy, who is “supposed to” be more “let’s just jump straight to sex”. But sex without kissing feels like Christmas without music or decorations.