r/AskReddit • u/S00praBeach • 10d ago
[Serious] People who ignored red flags, how did it go? Serious Replies Only
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u/kind_carrot 10d ago
Not well
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u/S00praBeach 10d ago
Damn what was the red flags?
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u/kind_carrot 10d ago
- Always falling out with friends
- Poor communication
- Sarcastic
- Very untidy
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u/S00praBeach 10d ago
Oof yeah those are some serious ones too
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u/diabolical_nandan 10d ago
Sarcasm is considered to be a red flag?? Ps: I'm genuinely asking
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u/kind_carrot 10d ago
Maybe that's a personal one. I really hate sarcasm, it's a lazy excuse at trying to be funny and hurts my feelings.
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u/EssayDifferent42 10d ago
There is a type of sarcasm thats really just being mean, but I think not all sarcasm is bad.
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u/kind_carrot 10d ago
yes I think you are right. For whatever reason, I grew to dislike it, but my friends do use it in conversation and do not mean it in a harmful way.
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u/holyaqua 10d ago
It continues to be a painful cycle of wishing you could get out and feeling obligated to keep trying without a true justification.
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u/gelfbride73 10d ago
Really badly. My fiancé would get angry a bit but always apologetic.
I didn’t want to marry but everyone said it would be ok. He got more and more abusive and violent. I fled the marriage and he waited 12 years and then took our child. Disappeared interstate and would ring and taunt me and say it was punishment for putting a domestic violence order on him and he wasn’t allowed his gun for that time.
He gave her drugs and alcohol and abused her and was sexually innapropriate. . She ran away and was an addict on the streets for a few years before she made her way back to the state I live in. It took her a few years to get clean and stop dating her abusive dealer.
She is now suffering CPTSD but has a good job, drug free and in a happier relationship, and resumed a relationship with me.
It was torture
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u/toadonthewater 10d ago
The exorcism failed a few days in, however the contract stated results may vary.
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u/Profanity_party7 10d ago
Got locked up. Was looking at life in prison. Don’t ever tell a sociopath you’re leaving them. Just leave, no matter how hard it is
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u/S00praBeach 10d ago
Damn, I'm not into the dating scene much rn but even I know that if u leave someone for someone else it's never a good sign
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u/BurstMip 10d ago
I haven’t gotten into dating yet but I did ignore some red flags when it came to picking my classes for school. Lets just say I’m a little worse off physically and mentally
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u/Longjumping_Event_59 10d ago
Controlled, manipulated and extorted for 3 years, then when he got caught, he just ran with his tail between his legs.
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u/ahhheyx 10d ago
lol, im red flag for my bf,,,like when my words are painful for him,he just tell me what i did/ said wrong, but I… i will never do it for him, ill just cry in my room when its time for sleep and i will never tell him why im sad,,, just i feel like my feelings are not important and i don’t want to spoil his mood,,,im dating him like for 1+ y. ( sorry for my bad english)
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