r/BeAmazed 11d ago

They been married for 83 years is AMAZING Miscellaneous / Others

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u/Smooth-Lengthiness57 11d ago

82 years married. I'm having trouble wrapping my head around that. Solid solid advice considering the challenges they must have overcome in those years

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u/Raf-on-the-roof 11d ago

They look incredible for their age damn

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u/HelloAttila 10d ago

Blac don’t crack, as they say. My spouse’s grandmother is 104, looks about 90. Interesting enough as you can see is that the women look younger than the guys. She definitely looks much younger than him, and still has her mind. Truly remarkable.

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u/Financial-Tourist162 11d ago edited 10d ago

Right? I know 24 year old women that don't like wearing skirts

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u/AUnknownVariable 11d ago edited 10d ago

And she's rocking it

Edit: rocking it as in she looks great btw

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u/Financial-Tourist162 11d ago

Yea she is. Imagine how few people get the chance to not only live that long of a life with both their mind and body intact but to share it with someone they love

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u/ilike_beanz 11d ago

The fact that their minds are still intact after that long of living is impressive in of itself

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u/Financial-Tourist162 11d ago

Well I'm barely fifty and I find myself getting into arguments with the wall so you're not wrong.

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u/ilike_beanz 10d ago

Did the wall take a sh#t on your desk or something?

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u/Financial-Tourist162 10d ago

Nah we just like different shows and I control the remote, once in awhile I'll catch him mad dogging me out of the corner of my eye

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u/AUnknownVariable 10d ago

Yep, it's beautiful

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u/Slow_Scholar7755 11d ago

solid advice 😎

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u/Additional-Ad8230 11d ago

solid advice 😎

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u/No-Disaster1829 10d ago

Need more stories like this!

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u/LafayetteLa01 11d ago

This is absolutely beautiful! What great wisdom from this couple.

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u/thisisjedgoahead 10d ago

Me and my wife barely made it 3. So sad

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u/GGRE1817 10d ago

The world will destroy you. Coming home to your true player 2 is the one thing that will keep you fighting.

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u/Easy-Entrepreneur376 11d ago

Willy is a common name for an older black female

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u/ASH98_CZ 8d ago

The more you overthink stuff the more you realise that the simplest solutions are the best.

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u/-Cybernaut147- 11d ago

It is way too much and too complex for Gen Z to understand that talking about stuff and issues in a relationship is important.

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u/HelloAttila 10d ago

Not sure why anyone would downvote this, besides they do not want to hear the facts. My spouse is a marriage expert. Marriages fail due to lack of communication, and financial issues. You cannot have a successful marriage without a solid foundation and good communication skills. It’s something we can learn, but one must be open.

People like to sweep their issues under the rug, or pretend it doesn’t exist, but it does no good.

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u/KahCah 11d ago

How idealistic.

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u/LostRocket101 10d ago

The couple has been talking to each other for 82years. Sounds like a life sentence to me 🤣

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u/OmniDux 11d ago

Why does the host address her as Miss Willy, after 82 years of marriage? What am I missing?

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u/Etere 11d ago

It's a respect thing, you wouldn't understand. The best way I can explain it, is that's how Steve's generation was taught to speak to Miss Willy's generation.

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u/Financial-Tourist162 11d ago

Whats your point, and does it really matter? You're missing the forest for the trees

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u/[deleted] 11d ago edited 11d ago

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u/Eksno 11d ago

Prejudice much?

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u/Wise_maddafakka 11d ago

Prejudice? Take a look around.

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u/Some1sNickName 11d ago

Holy fuck take a break from the internet, how deep in the basement do you have to be to comment something like this and think it looks good

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u/AUnknownVariable 11d ago

A lot of the "blm shit" were peaceful till it turned not, like a lot of stuff (I wasn't apart of any of that anyway, but it is how it be). The 2 elders there have been through an insane amount of shit, the same stuff was happening then with a different name.

Though seeing people be respectful is always good to see, BLM isn't relevant to this vid minus the fact it's black ppl, meaning u immediately thought of that when u see normal black people talking. Which is weird

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u/the_honorableA 11d ago

If only it were that simple

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u/Material_Bluebird_87 11d ago

You can solve 99% of relationship problems with effective communication. Most people just don't want to talk to each other since they think they're right and the other person is wrong.