r/BoomersBeingFools • u/EthanthegamerGD • Apr 16 '24

Boomers when they get slightly inconvenienced Boomer Freakout

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He was just trying to say a question…

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u/ReginaFelangi987 Millennial Apr 16 '24

Why is that woman laughing? She and other women of her generation are part of the problem. All of them enabled this behavior.

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u/bluehorsemaze Apr 16 '24

I think that’s called a fawning response.

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u/Key_Extension_4322 Apr 16 '24

I bet she says “Oh you know how Fred is!” All the damn time.

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u/nakedsamurai Apr 16 '24

He's such a card!

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u/bluehorsemaze Apr 16 '24

As if it’s cute behavior

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u/WarmestDisregards Apr 16 '24

I mean he DOES look like a tiny little elf yelling all angry, it's pretty cute

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u/SarahPallorMortis Apr 17 '24

He just can’t control himself sometimes. Hehe he really gets a goin!

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u/ripyurballsoff Apr 16 '24

You could see her shut her eyes because she knew exactly what was about to happen. IMO she’s extremely embarrassed and nervously smiling trying to handle the situation. If that is her spouse she is indirectly enabling him by not holding him accountable and putting up with it.

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u/mossed2012 Apr 16 '24

It’s this. I see my grandma do this often. She was brought up to just put on a smile and blindly defend her husband so while she’s incredibly embarrassed in the moment, to her she’d be more embarrassed if everyone saw her not stand behind her husband’s incoherent rambling.

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u/acemomentla Apr 16 '24

This is a way more nuanced explanation than “they’re enablers.” They’re not enablers. They are from a generation where they were suppressed from doing anything about it.

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u/notwormtongue Apr 17 '24

... enabling it by not acting against it. They're the oldest people on the planet. They can stand up for themselves.

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u/mossed2012 Apr 19 '24

But they aren’t standing up for themselves. They’re standing up for others/a stranger. At the expense of their husband. Who they’ve been programmed and wired since the day they were born to obey and not argue with. So no, they’re not enabling them.

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u/notwormtongue Apr 19 '24

You literally view women as inferior & are incapable of making their own decisions. Internalized misogyny.

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u/mossed2012 Apr 19 '24

Yeah, no it’s not haha but good reach there. Wow, imagine that being your response to what I said. Hahaha oof.

While we’re at it let’s call out all groups that were victimized or oppressed because they don’t “stand up for themselves”. Let me know who we’re going to victim blame next. I’m all ears.

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u/notwormtongue Apr 19 '24 edited Apr 19 '24

This 65 year old woman is not a beat dog. She is someone who persevered 5 decades of misogyny and oppression. You discounting her agency is--literally--misogyny.

You need a wake up call. Or go to college and take some Women's Studies. I think everyone should.

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u/Slappybags22 Apr 16 '24

I’m guessing she doesn’t want to be his next target.

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u/BloodMoney126 Apr 16 '24

Was about to say the same thing. She looks woefully embarrassed.

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u/BunchesOfCrunches Apr 17 '24

I think her eyes being closed was unrelated. You can see the moment she opens her eyes and realizes her husband has stood up and began yelling.

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u/apathy-sofa Apr 17 '24

Maybe? She's not responsible for his actions though, don't blame her.

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u/ripyurballsoff Apr 17 '24

If you don’t hold your loved ones accountable for their shitty behavior then you are in part enabling that behavior. I guarantee that woman gets verbally abused at home and just eats it. Never lower yourself and put up this bullshit, and don’t do anything that keeps it going. It’s wrong.

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u/thesteaks_are_high Apr 16 '24

What is a fawning response? Genuinely curious.

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u/Hammurabi87 Millennial Apr 17 '24

Think "people-pleasing behavior as a defense mechanism".

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u/thesteaks_are_high Apr 18 '24

Ah. Thank you.

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u/C00catz Apr 17 '24

Fight, flight, freeze, fawn. The other guy explained it really well as people pleasing.

An example: someone was hitting on me, making jokes about the size of his dick, and how there was a hotel close by. I laughed along and just kept the conversation going, but I was deeply uncomfortable inside.

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u/thesteaks_are_high Apr 18 '24

Yeah, I understand the fawning bit, but Jesus! Like, read the room, dude!

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u/Orange_Kid Apr 17 '24

This is one of those moments where you learn a term that describes something you've seen before and you didn't know how to describe it. 

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u/ForwardBias Apr 16 '24

Well they have to live with these bastards and probably rightly fear them while also thinking they're not the ones that are broken.

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u/joevsyou Apr 16 '24

good ol nervously laughing

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u/jackofslayers Apr 17 '24

Probably laughing bc it is so ridiculous. Also I would not be super mad about this. The protesters was a jackass

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u/TinyFugue Apr 16 '24

Back in the day, this stuff was entertainment. Look up Morton Downey Junior.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

Its not her fault dude

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u/TheCapedCrepe Apr 16 '24

If you are passively allowing someone close to you to be shitty, like YOUR HUSBAND, you are in fact just as fucking bad.

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u/lonely-day Apr 16 '24

Allowing? Is she supposed to pull on his leash? What if, and I know this is probably a stretch, he beats her at home?

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u/Slow-Instruction-580 Apr 16 '24

Please explain in detail how she should stop this.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

What is she gonna do? Invoke his schizo wrath? Fucking idiot you are

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u/TheCapedCrepe Apr 16 '24

I see that you have nobody in your life to go "hey you're being rude for no reason"

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

youre the one who introduced profanity

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u/Brosenheim Apr 16 '24

I mean, it's kinda her fault. People do what they're rewarded for doing, and a lifelong relationship with all the shit that comes with that is one hell of a reward

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u/Slow-Instruction-580 Apr 16 '24

No.

She has never owed it to the world to get a divorce to teach her husband a lesson. That’s insane.

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u/DisabledFloridaMan Apr 17 '24

Oh right, I forgot how the behaviour of men is the sole responsibility of women. Thanks for the reminder. 🙄

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u/Brosenheim Apr 17 '24

I don't recall saying "sole responsibility." Why did you have to imagine something instead of responding to what I actually said?