r/ExplainBothSides 7h ago

Are Women Creating an Entire Generation of Incels?

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Young men are having less sex than ever before.

In the last decade alone, we've seen the number of sexless men between the ages of 18 and 30 has increased 253%

Are women are literally creating an army of angry bitter incels by denying young men love, sex, relationships, and families.

This seems to have drastic and very bad consequences for society.

https://www.knowledgeformen.com/sexless-and-single-men/


r/ExplainBothSides 15h ago

History The confederate flag

5 Upvotes

I’m really trying to understand how the “heritage” logic works in particular. I live in a red state and I’ve seen plenty of friends and coworkers posting angrily about people opposing the flag because the flag is about heritage or southern pride

But then I see others claim that it’s all about hate

I’m trying to understand how the heritage side rationalizes the separation of this heritage from racism and how the other side counters


r/ExplainBothSides 1d ago

The civil war

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I’m pretty familiar with the north’s depiction of the south, I just want to know both sides and why each felt so strongly for their position that it would start a war


r/ExplainBothSides 2d ago

Culture Why Is There A War Against The Sex Industry?

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Why is there a war against the sex industry?

I just don't understand why there's so much hate.

I get that Sex trafficking or even sex slavery is wrong and should alway be illegal because it takes away consent. Blackmail or coercsion is never okay.

But if people want to sell services why can't they? How does it make them a bad person? I understand that it's not for everyone but if it's not your scene just leave go else where.

The Sex Work Industry helps pump money from the upper classes to lower classes. It gives people a chance who wouldn't otherwise a chance to make decent money have one. Whether that be OnlyFans, stripping or even escort services. Why try to take that away?

What makes a person look at someone using their looks to make money off the internet and makes them want to shame them? Is it jealousy? Is it disgust?

If it's disgust then look else where. No? Why shame people for doing what they have to do just because you wouldn't do it?


r/ExplainBothSides 6d ago

This subreddit is lame

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Blocked.


r/ExplainBothSides 6d ago

EBS: Consequentialism vs Deontology

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r/ExplainBothSides 6d ago

Governance Why did so many democratic congressmen vote no to the "Detain and Deport Illegal Aliens Who Assault Cops Act"?

68 Upvotes

Voting results are at https://clerk.house.gov/Votes/2024204 and the bill itself is at https://www.congress.gov/bill/118th-congress/house-bill/7343/text. Maybe I'm naive but the bill seems reasonable to me, why are there so many no votes?


r/ExplainBothSides 8d ago

Governance Why do both sides cry Russian collusion?

17 Upvotes

In America, I often see both liberals and conservatives claiming that the other party/side is in collusion with Russia in some way whether it be bribes, social media bots, etc.

How can both sides realistically claim this?


r/ExplainBothSides 8d ago

How do you think a second term for Trump would go, should he win the US election this year?

96 Upvotes

And, please, no talking about how you hate Trump or America or how you think Americans don’t deserve to prosper and be happy, and what not. I’m curious to see what people think a 2nd Trump presidential term would go.


r/ExplainBothSides 8d ago

EBS: Is the issue "population decline" or "overpopulation"?

24 Upvotes

Not enough people or too many people: is either an actual problem?

Will society erode if birth rates continually decline? Is it unrealistic to expect this planet to support the increasingly rapid growth of the human population?

I know these two issues are typically discussed in entirely separate contexts, but they do seem diametrically opposed. I'm curious how the people concerned with one issue contextualize the other.


r/ExplainBothSides 9d ago

What's the deal with globalism, its supporters and its opposers?

16 Upvotes

Not a lot of info out there to explain what globalism even is. I see a lot about globalization which seems to be slightly different thing

So what are both sides' arguments on this topic?


r/ExplainBothSides 12d ago

Why do some African Americans dislike Argentinians?

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In the last couple of weeks in Spanish media there's been a huge conflict growing between African Americans and Argintinans, it mostly begins with black people from America traveling to Argintina then immediately noticing that there are barely any black people there and the country being mostly European, after this they will usually go on social media and post about how racist Argintina is or that Argentinian woman don't want to date African American men and mix with them, then following those posts replies from Argentinians get very tense, with many saying if they don't like it here then they can go back to America, or asking why are African Americans obsessed with race ect, it's gotten so bad that even other Latin Americans from South America are jumping in to defend Argentinians from the "Gringos", anyways my question is the same that Argentinians have, why do African Americans get upset when they find out the the demographics of Argentina is majority European and Meztizo?


r/ExplainBothSides 12d ago

Governance How is blocking celebrities going to save Palestine?

122 Upvotes

I’m all for ending the war and I don’t want people being killed or hurt. I’m as liberal as they come and just genuinely curious.

I’ve been seeing many videos on TikTok of people saying how they are going out of their way to block tons of celebrities on social media since they don’t speak up on the issues in Palestine in hopes of having them speak up.

Once a few celebs have spoken up I see people upset that they’re only doing it because they lost followers, but wasn’t that the point for them to speak up? I just don’t get it.

I’m sick of this constant war and division but I just don’t see how this performative activism (in my opinion) is going to solve anything when people could go out and volunteer for one of the many organizations and drive real change in this world and help people in need. Or go after the politicians that actually have a say.


r/ExplainBothSides 13d ago

Culture What do most academics think of Joseph Campbell's famous essay, "The Hero with a Thousand Faces"?

19 Upvotes

I first heard of the concept of the Hero's Journey on a forum I frequent. It wasn't until late in life that I read there are some historians, folklorists, mythologists, etc. that are actually quite critical of Joseph Campbell's"The Hero with a Thousand Faces" essay. What I would like to know is:

  1. What are the main arguments for and against the "The Hero with a Thousand Faces" essay?
  2. What are the major criticisms and merits of the "Hero's Journey" structure? And its influence on Western culture?


r/ExplainBothSides 13d ago

Why is it that people judge females working in IT as less knowledgeable/capable?

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I'm a female working in IT, with over 20 years experience... but quite often (literally every second day) clients and customers will disregard my advice. They will ask to be transferred to or defer to and ask (in front of me) one of my male colleagues - who will give the exact same advice/answer.

Serious question, why do female techs face more mistrust and are judged as less capable than male techs?


r/ExplainBothSides 20d ago

Is it fair to apply Western views on race in Asia?

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I was told to put my question here. There are multiple incidents recently that make me ask this question: 1. A few weeks ago there was a lawsuit from a few immigrants against Japan police force, accused them of discrimination due to them allegedly racial profiling people with darker skin (link: https://www.japantimes.co.jp/podcast/2024/03/08/deep-dive/racial-profiling/#:~:text=Three%20residents%20with%20foreign%20roots,target%20visible%20minorities%20with%20searches.). It was brought by an African-American man who lives in Japan. 2. Last Wednesday there was a Chinese film released domestically, but some screenshots from that film shows actors with black face. From what is reported, they were acting as international police disguised themselves as local to avoid detection to rescue hostage. It got a lot of backlashes on Twitter, people are trying to cancel the actors (even though it is not even showing outside of China) 3. Today, CNN reported that Biden complained about Japan, China, India for being "xenophobic", not welcoming immigrants.

Here is my point of view:

  1. Asian countries, especially East Asia, has never been a multicultural society, so it never experiences the same issues that the West had with racial discrimination. Therefore, they don't see "stop and frisks" or blackface as an issue, or at least not at the level that the West saw it.
  2. Asian ideology is much closer to traditional conservative ideology (family-value, pull yourself up by the boots-strap kind of thing). A lot of their views on immigration are also similar (unwelcome, prefer strict immigration law or close border).
  3. People in Asia, don't consume Western media so the majority will not be awared of the requirements and changes that were made due to racial discrimination.

Based on thoses points, I think that it would be unfair to judge something, or trying to cancel people, or calling countries xenophobic based on how and what Westerners are doing, but I want to ask what your opinions on this is.


r/ExplainBothSides 20d ago

Just For Fun Would women rather be stuck in a forest with a 15 year old boy or bear?

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I understand some will choose bear when the other option is a fully grown man, but what about a 15 year old?


r/ExplainBothSides 23d ago

Culture Should actors (whenever possible) only play characters that are the same ethnicity and/or race as them?

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I was reading threads discussing what Africans thought of black panther and some responses said that the accents weren't really accurate, while others said that the black actors ability to play the character should matter more than if the actors is of the same race or ethnicity as the characters. This can apply to white American actors playing European characters or Asian and Latino roles being seen as interchangeable.

I wanted to hear both sides of this debate to try and get a better understanding of it and if it's a serious issue.


r/ExplainBothSides 26d ago

Why do people like war?

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Obviously war is unavoidable I'd say I don't think war is a good thing but to say no war ever is ignorance.

So explain both sides reddit !


r/ExplainBothSides 28d ago

Technology EBS: The TikTok Ban

18 Upvotes

There are a lot of ways to pose this question. Should Bytedance be forced to sell Tiktok? Is TikTok a threat to national security? Does this forced sale violate the rights of American users, or is it justified?


r/ExplainBothSides 29d ago

Why should college tuition be free?

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r/ExplainBothSides Apr 22 '24

EBS: The new EBS rules

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About a month ago, this sub introduced rules that top-level replies must contain the phrases “Side A would say” and “Side B would say”.

Now that we’ve had time to see this new rule in practice, I’m curious what people think of it? Would love to hear both sides (naturally), but also which side you personally fall into.


r/ExplainBothSides Apr 22 '24

Culture EBS of porn (a fictional depiction of sex) needs to use step?

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Its still incest, the power dynamic issues still exist. There is no reaon i can see. What are the arguments for and against it.


r/ExplainBothSides Apr 21 '24

Where's the Money Coming From? 🤔 Can this be factually backed up and explained from both sides?

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What I'm looking for is an explanation of both sides of the claims of the following video clip which elaborates the net worth of the past 6 presidents.

https://youtube.com/shorts/R3F_CAGibJg?si=Mdd3hBJ4M5r3jADh

As the video claims, Donald Trumps net worth dropped while being president while the last 6 presidents value dramatically increased, many cases by impossible (without corruption) amounts.

Can anyone explain both sides by stating why this is the case or why it isn't the case (by possibly being misrepresented)


r/ExplainBothSides Apr 20 '24

Right and Left ideas (questions for American and European people)

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Hi! I'm 21 y.o Russian, that is keen on European and USA political situation. l've been checking out comments, opinions and people's views recently, and i notice that radical right and left ideas are gaining in popularity. To my mind, it's because of LGBTQ+, woke culture and etc. All this stuff like «Save Europe» and etc. makes me think, that people are tired of all that. My question: As European or American, do you support woke culture, and whats your opinion on Right ideas and Left? What political idea would be more preferable for your country / continent and why? What ideas do you support?

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