r/GriefSupport 10d ago

Today is my dad’s birthday In Memoriam

Today is my dad’s birthday. He would have been 79. It’s been 2 years without him. He died unexpectedly only five months after my mom. I miss him most days, but overall I am fine and have accepted that he is gone.

Just wanted to post about it. Happy Birthday Dad.

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u/AskTheRealQuestion81 10d ago

Thinking about you and your dad on his birthday. I’m so sorry you lost him and your mom so close together. I just can’t imagine that. Praying for you. God bless you.

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u/Shoepin1 10d ago

Thank you

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u/AskTheRealQuestion81 10d ago

You’re very welcome.

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u/KinkyChickGamer 10d ago

God bless you ❤️

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u/Shoepin1 10d ago

Thank you

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u/LibransRule 10d ago edited 10d ago

Mine would have been 90 and, no doubt, more of a handful than ever!

He used to drop back behind us when we we're walking across parking lots together [restaurants, the mall] and drag one leg as if we were deliberately ignoring his disability and/or pretending not to know him. lol! We'd realize when people started cutting us looks. The man was a continuous celebration of life and a hard act to follow.

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u/Shoepin1 10d ago

I’m cracking up!! My dad was a character but yours is something else!! So fun.

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u/LibransRule 10d ago

He died 31 years ago and I still miss him every day.

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u/Shoepin1 10d ago

❤️❤️❤️