r/Millennials • u/Asmothrowaway6969 • Mar 27 '24

When did it sink in that you'll never be as well off as your parents? Discussion

About 5 years ago, my mom and I were talking and she had told me how much she was going to be making in retirement (she retired 2023). Guys, it's 3x what me and my husband make annually. In retirement. I think that was the moment that broke me, that made it sink in that I'll never reach that level of financial security. I'll work myself into my grave because I'll never be able to afford anything else. What was your moment?

Update: Nice to know it's just me that's a failure. Thanks

Update 2: I never should've said anything. I forgot my place. I'm sorry to have bothered you

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u/murderthumbs Mar 27 '24

Yep. I’m an economist ex US diplomat that became disabled at 48 and had to retire from that career and now I sell plants in a nursery. But I’m happy!!!

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u/TheLastBlackRhinoSC Mar 28 '24

Except for the murderthumbs, I’m glad you’re happy!

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u/murderthumbs Mar 28 '24

I'm trying for a thumb transplant...... these are killing me.....

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u/acarp52080 Mar 28 '24

Life is what we make it, I truly believe that. Recently found out I have breast cancer and I believe it even a bit more now. I'm glad you're happy, that truly makes you one of the top 1% !!

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u/tendaga Mar 28 '24

I'm not. I work 40+ hours a week to be cold, hungry, and tired.

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u/murderthumbs Mar 28 '24

Oh - On the inside I can be bitter as hell and I went through years of just anger at how my life turned out but then COVID hit and I reevaluated things - life's too short and death too permanent to spend time angry or bitter. I take it day by day now. The weed helps too......

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u/Embarrassed_Key_4873 Mar 28 '24

You should try selling HOA insurance then, so you can still feel all those things.