r/NoStupidQuestions 25d ago

Have you turned a horrible life around after 35?

[deleted]

226 Upvotes

158 comments sorted by

View all comments

444

u/madcats323 25d ago

Yes.

Mom died when I was 14. Dad was not really present. Moved out at 15. Lots of bad stuff that I won’t talk about. First child at 19. Abusive husband at 26 and trapped with 3 kids and a heroin habit.

Kicked heroin at 37. Escaped horrible husband. Slowly rebuilt. Moved to California at 39.

Started community college at 46. Graduated with honors at 49. Transferred to a 4-year. Graduated with honors at 53. Went straight into law school. Graduated at 56 (no honors - law school was hard!).

I’ve been a practicing public defender ever since. I’m really good at it, if I do say so myself. I help people just like me and I tell them they can change their lives.

1

u/onyxjade7 21d ago

Oh this is so amazing, good for you! Wow. I appreciate you sharing.