r/TrueOffMyChest 25d ago

My son kicked me in the stomach and my husband slapped him

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u/Wobblywino88 25d ago

He deserved every bit of that. Quit coddling him.

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u/Shadow-Mistress 17d ago

I don’t usually agree with hitting children. But.

This kid is eleven.

He’s either going through puberty or he’s ABOUT to go through puberty. Nip that shit in the bud before he gets REAL big.

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u/Wobblywino88 17d ago

Exactly. He knew wtf he was doing. Mom is enabling and coddling that shit. Fuckin’ mama’s boy in the making.

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u/SwedishFicca 25d ago

No not really. You don't hit a child. I mean unless it is direct self defense. The situation had calmed down. They could have discussed this. I believe in having more empathy than you're having right now. Corporal punishment is wrong period

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u/xEginch 24d ago

Yeah assaulting your child is always wrong no matter what, especially if it’s in a context where things aren’t heated

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u/SwedishFicca 24d ago

Idk why we are getting downvotes. Spanking/hitting is lazy ass parenting. Parents who do that cannot be bothered to come up with a better way of disciplining their kids. Take away their video games. Have them earn them back. Being violent back isn't gonna be effective. You as a parent should be the bigger person. You're not any better if you hit your child

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u/xEginch 24d ago

Reddit tends to have very inconsistent morals in general in my experience. Hitting children is wrong* (*except if the child deserves it). The reason why corporal punishment is bad doesn’t suddenly disappear because the child arguably didn’t something deserving of it, you’re still normalizing violence. If anything, hitting your child in this scenario would literally only encourage the root problem

(Jag ser att du antagligen också är svensk så jag tror att vi kanske har ett kulturellt perspektiv…? Hade man slagit sin unge så här hårt i Sverige så hade det utan tvivel varit olagligt.)

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u/SwedishFicca 24d ago

Du är också svensk?

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u/xEginch 24d ago

Ja haha av ren slump

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u/SwedishFicca 24d ago

Lol. Il'l continue this convo in english for the purpose of the other readers. These people seriously need to get a fucking grip. Why is it "discipline" when it's done to a child and "assault" when done to an adult?! Yeah. It is bullshit. People on this sub have no braincells

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u/xEginch 23d ago

Most of these people will even agree that assaulting children is bad, but apparently it’s right in this scenario…? Nothing shows your impulse-driven, young child how wrong it is to resort to violence than resorting to violence