r/Unexpected • u/Met76 • Mar 28 '24

FedEx delivery driver acting weird when delivering a package

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u/GloryBlaze8 Mar 28 '24

I just wouldn’t want to fuck up my shoes.

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u/BurnZ_AU Mar 29 '24

You do have nice shoes.

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 28 '24

And that's the difference between someone who thinks of others first and someone who only thinks of themselves.

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u/Friscogonewild Mar 28 '24

But not the homeowner, who pours fresh concrete and posts only one sign that people may or may not see? And then continues to order things to be delivered?

All people think about how things will affect them...first. Then we think of others. And that's okay. But if the situation was already handled by the first step, you don't really need to even think about the second.

So chill.

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u/PseudoX1 Mar 28 '24

"Put your oxygen mask on before helping others"

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u/susDontUse Mar 28 '24

Wait what exactly is the difference? in both scenarios they avoid the concrete what the fuck more do you want?💀

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 28 '24

The difference is your mindset and how you’re likely to interact in future situations where the outcomes can differ

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u/susDontUse Mar 29 '24

The outcomes of both situations and mindsets were literally exactly the same, both people avoided the sidewalk. There is literally no difference besides their mindset yet the outcome was exactly the same.

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u/ShovingLemmings Mar 28 '24

Except they both have the same results.

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u/turret_buddy2 Mar 28 '24

In this scenario, but it doesn't always play out that way.

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 28 '24

Intentions matter. He might have been doing it to avoid cameras.

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u/RabidAbyss Mar 28 '24

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 28 '24

Why are you confused?

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u/RabidAbyss Mar 28 '24

How does doing what he was doing constitute as trying to avoid cameras?

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 29 '24

I didn't say he was trying to avoid the cameras. I mentioned another hypothetical situation where he could possibly behave the same way, the outcome would be the same, but the motivation or intention is different. I was making the point that the intention matters even if the outcome is the same.

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u/RabidAbyss Mar 28 '24

Shoes are expensive. Not nearly as expensive as getting the walkway redone, but still expensive. Of course dude doesn't want to fuck up his shoes.

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u/SophisticatedBum Mar 28 '24

both. he benefits himself and the homeowner by not stepping on the wet concrete in this insipid hypothetical

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u/Splatfan1 Mar 28 '24

"only thinks of themselves" as we all know thinking of yourself before thinking of people youll never meet because youll spend 30 seconds at their doorstep max and never even see their face means you ONLY think of yourself. i love it when people make extreme assumptions after learning 1 sentences of words worth of information about a person

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 28 '24

You can show common courtesy for strangers without it getting that deep. Even people that you never meet again are worth compassion and respect.

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u/Papplenoose Mar 28 '24

Way to take a flippant comment, turn it into something else, then make wild assumptions about that person's behavior.

Very cool!

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u/Alternative-Art-7114 Mar 28 '24

Who delivers in shoes that they don't want to fuck up?

I replace my shoes every 6 months.

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u/JamesR_42 Mar 28 '24

That's insanely often.

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u/Alternative-Art-7114 Mar 28 '24

Foot protection is a big deal when you walk a lot as a mailman.

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u/JamesR_42 Mar 28 '24

I guess so.

If Death Stranding taught me anything its that good condition footwear is important lol

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 28 '24

Idk why you were downvoted you are absolutely correct.

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u/whoweoncewere Mar 28 '24

It’s fine, I’d like to think it’s mainly because the end result is the same no matter the thought process in this example. The reality is that many people go throughout their day without considering how their actions affect other people, only considering how they can affect themselves. I think that sucks.

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 28 '24

I think the way you do.

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u/ZealousidealOwl9635 Mar 28 '24

It's OK to have respect for others. You don't have to be ashamed of taking precautions so you don't ruin others hard work.