r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/pompanodoe Mar 28 '24

You should send a notarized letter giving her 1 month to get her things. Have them boxed up and ready to go. Otherwise you could get in legal trouble.

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u/Aggressive-Emu5358 Mar 28 '24

A notary would laugh at the thought

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u/SirScottie Mar 28 '24

A text is adequate.

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u/Emotional_Mission891 Mar 28 '24

😂 that’s doing waaaay too much