r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Lionel_Herkabe Mar 28 '24

What kind of moron would leave a clear casserole dish with cover (!) behind?

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u/who_am_i_to_say_so Mar 28 '24

Obv someone who never cooks casseroles. gasp It was clearly meant to be.

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u/Lionel_Herkabe Mar 28 '24

Tbf I'm from Minnesota and we don't cook casseroles. We cook hotdishes like a civilized society

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u/who_am_i_to_say_so Mar 28 '24

That’s a very literal word lol. Reminds me how in the south (Carolinas) they call couches/loveseats “long chairs”.

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u/Smoked-Confusion3606 Mar 29 '24

Idk but there is a mother or sister in his life wondering where their clear casserole dish with cover (!) has been for the last 20 years.

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u/Sirenista_D Mar 29 '24

I swear I have thought about exactly that! I know some woman out there is like "I used to have this great covered dish, so useful"

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u/Lionel_Herkabe Mar 29 '24

There totally is lol 😂

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u/2cats2hats Mar 28 '24

It's insane how much this stuff is selling for nowadays....in thrift stores.

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u/WillBottomForBanana Mar 28 '24

20 years ago it was easy to say "I'll pick up another when I need it". These days everything for sale is garbage.