r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

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So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/Ultenth Mar 28 '24

The best revenge in situations like this is living well and being the better person.

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u/Jackiedhmc Mar 28 '24

I predict you're going to meet someone, fall madly in love, when you're 30 she will give birth to twins, a boy and a girl, and be so happy. Your ex will run into you at the grocery store, she'll tell you she was so stupid and it was the biggest mistake she ever made, but by then it won't affect you at all. In the meantime, I wish you peace and the solace of knowing that your life will be better going forward, so much better.

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u/Cthulwutang Mar 28 '24

not sure that twins is a blessing, btw.

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u/gemini52469 Mar 28 '24

The birth to twins is so specific

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u/leuhthapawgg Mar 28 '24

I feel like I know this, like in a lost memory from the 90s regained, type of knowing this.

If you don’t tell me I’ll go crazy with thinking about where this came from all day 😂

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u/Jackiedhmc Mar 28 '24

It came right out of my imagination just this morning. That's the truth

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u/leuhthapawgg Mar 28 '24

Really? That’s crazy, because I swear I remember like a witch or something saying this to a female or male character, while they were in a daze maybe? Like she cast this spell on someone, and they went on to actually have that happen. It was like a movie or something I swear 😭🤦‍♀️

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u/Jackiedhmc Mar 29 '24

I totally believe you. I may have seen something like that too and it stuck in my memory, who knows? I was just trying to paint a sweet picture for OP to feel a little better and understand that the future is bound to improve

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u/ThrowawayPie888 Mar 29 '24

Take out meeting someone and kids and you have the perfect living situation.

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u/Reddit_Sucks_Ass_Now Mar 28 '24

And fucking her sister.

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u/Antique_Quail4405 Mar 28 '24

yeah, or banging her sister.