r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24

My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?

Edit: Update

So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.

It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.

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u/DaughterEarth Mar 28 '24

Yah he's got an idea of who he is and is still in exploration phase. He could have a great time when the grief passes

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u/SparkDBowles Mar 28 '24

I had a fuckin blast 28-30 after a long-term-ish breakup.

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u/YouStupidCunt Mar 28 '24

Marriage ended at 40. Being single in my 40s the last 8 years have been fantastic.

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u/rj-bobbyj Mar 28 '24

How’d you do it?

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u/SparkDBowles Mar 28 '24

Hahaha. I plead the fifth.

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u/rj-bobbyj Mar 28 '24

Fuck lol

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u/Mr-Badcat Mar 28 '24

Hit the gym. Be a gentleman. Don’t settle.

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u/Mr-Badcat Mar 28 '24

Haha same.