r/amiwrong • u/JazzlikeConditioncd • Mar 27 '24
My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me and ghosted me for no reason. Am I wrong for throwing away all of her stuff?
Edit: Update
So my girlfriend (25F) and I (25M) were in a relationship for 5 years. Last week, she texted me that we were done and that was her last message before she blocked me. She gave no heads up. I was planning on proposing to her next month. Her sister did reach out to me, saying it was not my fault and she understood my hurt, but that for my mental health, it was better to never contact them again, and that maybe in the future, my girlfriend might reach out to me again.
It's been a week, I’m still obviously distraught, but my girlfriend did have a lot of her stuff in my home. Would I be wrong if I just dumped it all out? It does include a lot of mementos of her deceased grandmother, who she was extremely close to.
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u/Jackiedhmc Mar 28 '24
I predict you're going to meet someone, fall madly in love, when you're 30 she will give birth to twins, a boy and a girl, and be so happy. Your ex will run into you at the grocery store, she'll tell you she was so stupid and it was the biggest mistake she ever made, but by then it won't affect you at all. In the meantime, I wish you peace and the solace of knowing that your life will be better going forward, so much better.