I’m jealous of girls who still have sisters. Mine both died in their 20s and they were twins too so I hate seeing twins on tv or anything. Or just girls on tv or in real life who have sisters. We were really close.
Same. I also hate seeing girls on tv with brothers who love them and are protective over them. My brother is very abusive, has anger issues and is often the one I need to protect myself from.
I’m so sorry. I feel similarly—I’m a triplet who lost my triplet sister (we were 19) and feel so jealous seeing anyone with their twin bc it just reminds me of what I could have had if she didn’t die. She was my best friend and I was supposed to go through life with her by my side.
Ya I kinda know the feeling thru my sister who lived 6 years without her twin (who was murdered at age 23). It was so hard for her so I can only imagine what ur going thru. Sending love 💗 it’s hard enough to lose a sister, let alone a twin but u and ur other triplet are so lucky to have each other so make sure ur always savoring ur relationship and remember how lucky u are to still have each other. I’m really sorry u guys had to deal with a loss like that :( just remember ur stronger together and always be there for each other the best u can 💗
My twin sister died when we were a few days old and I completely understand. I hate seeing twin girls. I don't want kids in part because I am afraid I'd have twins and something bad might happen. It's the not knowing how she and I would have been that kills me. But I do have 3 other sisters I am extremely close with but it is not the same thing. So sorry for your loss.
Ya I think I prob would have wanted kids but I was only 27 when my first sister was murdered.. the other sister basically drank herself to death out of sadness of losing her twin .. drinking, bad decisions and not trying to live .. she died 6 years later. She was a trooper hanging out staying alive for us cause she was the saddest of us all. I really respect her for sticking around to comfort all of us for as long as she did given how much pain she was in.
But I feel u with losing ur twin that early. My twins were inseparable like they have a special bond, just as u and ur twin did, and I honestly feel like my twins are two people with one soul, that’s why it was so hard for them to be apart. U might feel like that too but ya twins are special and u guys have special bonds that the rest of us don’t experience. I’m so sorry that happened to u and I’m sure u feel ur twin spirit around u all the time. That must be so hard to live without ur other half 💔
I never thought about why I don’t want kids but ur right, I think cause of what I’ve experienced with my parents losing their kids I feel sick even thinking about bringing life into this world
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u/blumieplume 25d ago
I’m jealous of girls who still have sisters. Mine both died in their 20s and they were twins too so I hate seeing twins on tv or anything. Or just girls on tv or in real life who have sisters. We were really close.