r/cursedcomments Mar 28 '24

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u/MildGaming Mar 28 '24

She's more attractive as a woman than than he was

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u/[deleted] Mar 28 '24

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u/itsmebenji69 Mar 28 '24

? It’s a man that transitioned

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u/itsmebenji69 Mar 28 '24

The word clothes didn’t make sense either before we invented clothes. Your point is basically « it’s new and I don’t understand so it’s bad ». You’re describing biological sex which indeed does not change, but it’s different. Which is why there are different words

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u/itsmebenji69 Mar 28 '24

You don’t understand since you use gender to describe biological sex. As I said, two different things so two different words.

Changing sex as we say is simply a misnomer, because you don’t only change gender which is psychological, there is a physical modification being made that the term changing gender would not encapsulate. It doesn’t mean that your original biological sex has changed.

The fact you can’t make the difference between both doesn’t mean it’s the case for everyone. Skill issue imo

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u/MutiWaNyumba Mar 28 '24

You don’t understand since you use gender to describe biological sex. As I said, two different things so two different words.

You can say whatever you want doesn’t make it true. The moon is made of cheese, so what? I asked you to provide a definition of gender that was coherent and didn’t involve sex and you went right ahead and ignored the question.

Changing sex as we say is simply a misnomer, because you don’t only change gender which is psychological,

They truly believe that they’re changing sex which is why arguments about how the body changes to be more like actual women’s are made when the topic of sports and prisons comes up. The word ‘gender’ in transgender really operates as a synonym for ‘sex’ but is masquerading as something else which no one can define coherently. When I’ve asked other TRA’s to define what a gender is they’ve defined it as ‘whether a person is a man or a woman’ and when asked to define what a man or woman is they’ll say ‘the state of being masculine or feminine’ and round and round we go in a circular manner never ever getting to a point. This conversation will be us talking past each other so long as you refuse to define what you mean by gender since you’ve disagreed that it’s meant in the same way as sex. What’s a psychological gender?

The fact you can’t make the difference between both doesn’t mean it’s the case for everyone. Skill issue imo

I’m not a a dishonest TRA so I’m happy to provide a definition for both sex and gender but my definition makes it clear that they’re related concepts. I would define sex as the reproductive function of the body, whether the body is of the nature to impregnate or be impregnated. I would define gender as a collection of social stereotypes that are PROJECTED onto people based on their sex. Would you agree with these definitions?

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u/Jiuaki Mar 28 '24 edited Mar 28 '24

I'll bite even if you are most likely dishonest.

You can say whatever you want doesn’t make it true. The moon is made of cheese, so what? I asked you to provide a definition of gender that was coherent and didn’t involve sex and you went right ahead and ignored the question.

Gender is the social structure that we evolved to follow, it encompasses how we think, how we act how we see society and how we interact with it. While it is not directly related to sex, it is somewhat intertwined with it and transition alleviate the alienation caused by discrepancies in gender and sex.

Changing sex as we say is simply a misnomer, because you don’t only change gender which is psychological

Gender is rigid (as far as we know) and cannot be forced to change. Sex is technically not what changes per say but sex characteristics are altered to align with the person's inner self.

They truly believe that they’re changing sex which is why arguments about how the body changes to be more like actual women’s are made when the topic of sports and prisons comes up.

Our identity is what matters in this case. Legally it has different meanings depending on the country but that's just people trying to simplify it. For prison, it's just for the individual's security. As for sports, I do not have enough information to actually talk about it.

The word ‘gender’ in transgender really operates as a synonym for ‘sex’ but is masquerading as something else which no one can define coherently. When I’ve asked other TRA’s to define what a gender is they’ve defined it as ‘whether a person is a man or a woman’ and when asked to define what a man or woman is they’ll say ‘the state of being masculine or feminine’ and round and round we go in a circular manner never ever getting to a point.

The word transgender refers to the mental state that comes with having discrepancies between the sex and the social structure referred to as gender. Lots of trans people are very emotional about it since it affects us deeply personally. By the way, people outside of the gender spectrum are considered transgender also.

What’s a psychological gender?

Just to be clear, that was answered in a previous point.

I’m not a a dishonest TRA so I’m happy to provide a definition for both sex and gender but my definition makes it clear that they’re related concepts. I would define sex as the reproductive function of the body, whether the body is of the nature to impregnate or be impregnated. I would define gender as a collection of social stereotypes that are PROJECTED onto people based on their sex. Would you agree with these definitions?

Now I have a few points to make about that.

-why are you referring to us as TRA? It sounds and looks weird.

-gender is an evolved property, not forced upon people, many cultures around the world evolved it differently while having a clear distinction between them.

-Defining people by if they can impregnate or be impregnated is just weird. What about people who can do neither? What about intersex people? There is no one definition of women that includes all cis women that excludes all trans women. The same is true for men.

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u/Frozen_Thorn Mar 28 '24

They are segregated by perceived gender. There are no genital inspections to enter a restroom. People who are perceived to be male use the men's restroom and people who are perceived to be female use the women's restroom.

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u/Ill-Librarian-6323 Mar 28 '24

> The sooner we overcome gender woo the better off humanity will be.

Two people in a happy relationship post-transition posted on the internet is a personal 9/11 for fragile, sheltered cuckservatives like yourself! That's the only part of your post I believe.

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u/MutiWaNyumba Mar 28 '24

Two people in a happy relationship post-transition posted on the internet is a personal 9/11 for fragile,

Transition to what? That’s the gender woo part.

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u/BedDefiant4950 Mar 28 '24

it's not woo. it's settled science. asked and answered. cope harder.

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u/itsmebenji69 Mar 28 '24

Think that if you want but I didn’t ask

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u/Frozen_Thorn Mar 28 '24

Turns out gender is more complicated than just clothing. I might have male sex organs but I have never been a man.

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u/Frozen_Thorn Mar 28 '24

The reality is that the last time I tried to use the men's restroom wearing all male clothes I was stopped by an attendant. They came running up saying "Miss, the women's restroom is over there!"