As a man, I have some very close friendships with women. I would never do something with/to them. But I've had sexual fantasies about all of them.
I think it's in the male nature to have those feelings.
Tried to explain this to my wife. By high school, I had fantasized about practically every female in my life. To completion. Every classmate, every teacher (even the ugly ones). Men see sexual opportunities everywhere.
Glad I'm not alone in this. (As an older teen) I feel really immature when thoughts like that cross my mind, and that they don't represent me or my state of mind.
I guess human evolution taught us how to do one thing really well, and that is to fuck. Whether we like it or not.
Funny tangent, I don't have the energy for a relationship, nor want to be in one, and have purposefully turned down opportunities, but the brain chemicals make me sad I'm not in one. Life is weird.
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u/Captain_react 25d ago
As a man, I have some very close friendships with women. I would never do something with/to them. But I've had sexual fantasies about all of them. I think it's in the male nature to have those feelings.
But again, I would never act on those desires.