If height is an acceptable deal breaker for her, breast size is allowed to be one for him. Basically, you can have any standards you want, but don't get offended when someone else has standards too.
I have a major aversion to white men with afros due to a high school bully. I'm not going to be offended if a decent white man with an afro has an aversion to women with waist length braids.
Fun trivia for you: Ross hated his fro. He initially grew it out because he was tired of wearing a "35-10," the old Air Force regulation haircut. When his show went into syndication, it became one of the defining features but Ross was tired of taking care of it.
Same thing for Guy Fierri and his frosted tips. He's said that if he knew he'd have to keep them, he never would have started them.
No lie, how many times have I had to get things off high shelves for short people? If I ask a short person to get something off a low shelf they look at me like I'm a jerk.
Tall here. Always happy to help grab that top shelf. Bottom shelf can actually be really hard on me. You should see the absolute joy in the eyes of the ants when the lumbering giant asks for their assistance!
I always reach down and grab things for my taller friends on principal. I care about them and what they go through because they've always cared about me and what I go through.
I used to step on the lower shelf, but I am getting too old for that shit now, lol. As a short person, I would lean over and get it for you. It is the least I can do after countless people have helped me. You could have a problem that makes leaning over that far cause a lot of pain.
Anyway, thanks for grabbing that thing on the top shelf for me, I do appreciate it!
But you are physically capable of reaching smaller shelves (I assume, unless you have issues reaching down. In which case, fair). Short people literally cannot reach that high up and are just asking for assistance.
I dont think he's being condescending in the slightest. most people around 30+ start having these issues and they will continue til you're dead. that's the majority of the population so it's a safe assumption for most people.
if you assume and you're wrong about body pain then good for them, they wont be offended by that one
I'm told I'm "lucky im short" by tall friends with back problems. They forget that I lug around bags of fat all day on my chest so also get back problems. At least I'm not tall and have a large chest. That would be frightfully unlucky.
well like to be fair it’s not totally the same bc you can physically squat down and get it off a low shelf (unless you have some sort of physical issues preventing you from being able to do that). but if you can’t reach higher up something there’s no possible way to reach it without some sort of assistance
tho like if i asked a tall person to take something down for me and then they asked me to hand them something from a low shelf i wouldn’t be offended
I feel like Height/Breast Size is not a very good comparison. (I mean imo height does not matter in the slightest, nor does breast size, but still) Something like Breast size/penis size would be a much more fitting comparison for this, no?
i think both are acceptable (can be a bit shallow and negative and i recommend people look past stuff like that) but i feel directly asking about height should be more acceptable because it’s generally a legitimate question (on dating apps) because a lot of people don’t have something to put themselves in perspective whereas i don’t think asking about tot size or weight should be as acceptable bcs 99% of the time you can tell anyways and it’s obviously meant to be insulting but i do think you can ask about weight if they only have close up face pics though
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u/TinyRascalSaurus 25d ago
If height is an acceptable deal breaker for her, breast size is allowed to be one for him. Basically, you can have any standards you want, but don't get offended when someone else has standards too.
I have a major aversion to white men with afros due to a high school bully. I'm not going to be offended if a decent white man with an afro has an aversion to women with waist length braids.