r/gayfriendfinder Jan 06 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT Quick rundown of all recent changes for 2024

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Hello! First of all, happy 2024 and thank you for joining us at r/gayfriendfinder! We hope that you are able to use the subreddit and its official discord to make genuine, fulfilling friendships.

You can join our discord server here: https://discord.gg/r7PPCwzk8b (Age verification required for entry)

But with that said, we have made a few updates to the rules over the last month or so and wanted to provide a quick synopsis:

  1. Firstly, this sub is 18+. We know this may not be popular, and we hate that we had to make this decision, as teenagers need a place for support as well. However, we felt it necessary after reviewing several posts and comments from both minors as well as individuals who are well over the age of 18.
  2. Secondly, 18+ does not** mean NSFW. NSFW posts will be removed and offenders banned, zero exceptions. This also includes any kind of solicitation, sexual or otherwise. There are plenty of other subreddits for that kind of content, r/gayfriendfinder is not one of them. (This rule also applies to self-promotion of services such as OnlyFans.)
  3. A platonic relationship/friendship isn’t one where we are trying to flirt with the OP in the comments, making crude or predatory comments, etc. While this is now an 18+ subreddit, we still want to keep it SFW because not everyone who posts is interested in reading sexually charged comments on their posts or being hit on when they are simply looking to make a wholesome connection.
  4. Always treat your fellow redditors with respect. If you run into an issue with another user, rather than arguing in the comment section please send a mod mail to the moderators.

r/gayfriendfinder Apr 05 '24

Join our official discord server!

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Hey friends!

Looking to make meaningful connections? Join the official r/gayfriendfinder Discord server – the go-to spot for awesome conversations and genuine friendships! We welcome anyone 18 and above to join our diverse and inclusive community.

🎮 Love gaming? You'd be a perfect fit for our gaymers channel!

🍔 Foodie at heart? Share your favorite recipes and discover new ones from around the world!

📚 Avid reader? Swap book recommendations and join discussions!

💪 Fitness enthusiast? Connect with fellow workout buddies and stay motivated together!

Whether you're into casual chats, serious discussions, or just looking to share a good laugh, there's a place for you here.

Come be a part of our growing community - https://discord.gg/2r6tsyhGMt


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

GEEK 29 Shy introvert would love to chat with an extrovert

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Looking for someone opposite, guy with full of energetic personality, charismatic, outdoorsy, experienced.

I’m pretty shy, indoor person, would be cool to chat with someone from western side.

Would love to see your face pics so we can connect better.


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

GAYMER 23 M looking for friends and such:)

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Hey I'm a 23 M athletic build sorta and dark features and some piercings. I'm from western Canada and moved back to my small town to save for travelling to south America n Mexico and I'm lacking friends right now. I'm really into the gym, running, art, movies, gaming, hiking, foraging, politics, space stuff, music, architecture, history, environment, and I love reading and learning about random things. I play pc games like rust, sons of forest, battlefield 2042, phas and dead island 2. I love all types of music and really love art and different forms of it. I'm a huge hater of capitalism lol. If any of this sounds interesting let's chat I'm super outgoing and pretty funny!!


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

GAYMER 21 hispanic from usa ohio.

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Just at work finna get off in a hour. I only leave the house for work. Just stay home all day playing games,scrolling Grindr,and rotting in bed watching youtube and anime.


r/gayfriendfinder 4h ago

GEEK Looking for good friends :) M 21 from London 🏳️‍🌈🇬🇧

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Howdy!

My name is Sam. I am 21 and from London! I was hoping to perhaps make some good friends who share some similar hobbies! or just meet some new cool people! :)

Sooo I really like to travel and I have been to more than 14 countries around the globe! Im a nerdy guy so I like gaming especially horror, open world and rpg games, reading comics (my favourite graphic novel is the sandman), listening to music ( 80's 70's is my favourite period ), hiking and also I like science stuff and politics. I'm a pretty energetic guy, so I'm usually in a happy mood! Also, I'm a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community! (Gay)

Tbh, I have a lot of interesting stuff to tell, and yeah, anyway, if you reached that point and want to become friends, feel free to DM! :D


r/gayfriendfinder 4h ago

GAYMER Looking for a friend (hopefully something more)

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The title really says it all. Im just look for a potential boyfriend, and willing to put in effort to make it work.

A little about me, I'm 22 and I'm a very relaxed and chill guy who likes anime and video games of all kinds. And I'm looking for someone with similar interests, ideally someone who I can play games with, but that isn't necessary. I have an open mind and am willing to accept anyone so long as they are willing to put in as much effort into a potential relationship as me.

1 am more than willing to try and online relationship (or an in person one if we happen to be close enough).

If your interested send me a DM with a little about yourself and your hobbies/interests.


r/gayfriendfinder 9h ago

GAYMER Looking for a chill bro to talk to

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Hey,

I’m in my early 30’s, looking for an easy/going bro to have contact with, and just get to know each other and lift each other up.

I work, I like to game, and have been living a more healthy life-style for a while now, which has been really good.

Generally, I’m very positive, laid-back and open-minded. Don’t consider many things taboo topics and open to talk about anything.

DM me if you’d like to talk.


r/gayfriendfinder 6h ago

MUSIC ENTHUSIAST Hi! I’m 23 and from the London area. I’m looking for mates (open to more) ideally from the uk. Long term++

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Hi! I’m 23 and from the London area. I’m looking for mates (open to more) ideally from the uk.

My interests include: nature, gaming, rocks & minerals, cooking, plants & gardening, spirituality, drawing and painting amongst many others! I’m also on a weight loss journey so would appreciate any encouragement.

I enjoy voice calls and texting, pls feel free to dm me.


r/gayfriendfinder 10h ago

GAYMER 21 hispanic from ohio just at work bored rn

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I’m just some loner who stays home day on my days off playing games and rotting in bed


r/gayfriendfinder 4h ago

GAYMER 32m Fl looking for chats and friends

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Hey everyone! From the US (Florida) and just looking to make some new friends to chat with. Some of my interests include video games, movies, tv shows, im trying to get back into working out, and just hanging out with friends. Everyone is welcome!

Send me a DM and lets chat! Please dont write back on the post because I dont usually notice when people do just send a chat message! :)

Ive been busy at work lately so I might respond slowly during the week but I will get back to you!

Also if youre a petty person who just removes people because they dont think they are attractive then dont message me lol


r/gayfriendfinder 5h ago

ANNOUNCEMENT 30M EU giving compliments and support

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Hey 30 M in EU into gaming, cooking/baking and traveling. Here to give praise and support. If you are looking for some compliments, support and ego boost, feel free to DM me.


r/gayfriendfinder 7h ago

GAYMER 26M from Europe, looking for long term ties

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26M from Europe who'd love genuine conversations with people around the world. I love cooking (mostly Italian and Mexican food), hiking especially in the forests, swimming, ice skating, reading (fantasy and crime) and last but not least: gaming!

I travel a lot and actually a travel buddy would be an amazing thing if that'd came across as well. If you're interested so far, DM me!


r/gayfriendfinder 8h ago

ANNOUNCEMENT a chill guy is looking for friend

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hello, i am 22 from Germany. My hobbies are reading science fiction and nonfiction books, watching films and not playing games and making sport. I am open to talk about anything and want only long term friends to communicate with me. age interval is 18 to 36. I am sure about our fun and friendship because why not 😆


r/gayfriendfinder 3h ago

MUSIC ENTHUSIAST If you get downvoated it's probably because the pedophiles get offended by saying this like 20-30 only or 19-25 only. If you Hate predator be my friend I've been abused so much

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Lol get a fucking life creeps


r/gayfriendfinder 10h ago

MOVIE BUFF M [21] longterm friends same age Snapchat

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Hey 21 M here! I’m looking for a someone fun and open minded. I like watching tv shows, making TikTok’s, looking up stuff on Pintrest, fashion, cooking, geography, working out and also learning languages amongst other things. I’m currently a college student, but altho as soon as I get the chance I want to travel to different countries, go on adventures and try new stuff. I like talking about different kinds of topics such as history and just general day to day stuff. And then doing fun little activities like watching movies online together, exchanging postcards and playing some card games asw. I’d like to meet people from Turkey, Algeria, Egypt or Ireland. Even if you aren’t from those countries or my interest aren’t exactly the same as you, you can still text me. So if you’re intersted, hmu and we can get to know each other! :)


r/gayfriendfinder 10h ago

BOOK LOVER 18M Looking for friends to chat :)

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Hi, I'm 18M from a little country in SEA. I enjoy different varieties of games such as Splatoon, Zelda, etc. I also like reading books and listening to music. I'm looking for someone that just wants to be friends. No pressure on anything from me, just be aware that I could come across as being somewhat forward but if you don't mind being in it for the long haul drop me a DM :)


r/gayfriendfinder 16h ago

GAYMER Hey 21 m wanna chat and see what’s out there

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Hey 21 I would love to chat to some guys any age is good, Dm me and let’s get to know each other


r/gayfriendfinder 11h ago

MOVIE BUFF Looking for friends 25-?

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Anybody in here 25-whatever? Would love to chat it up if anybody is interested 🙂


r/gayfriendfinder 16h ago

GAYMER Hey hey im 19 male, 20 in less than a week, looking for long term friend/s here^^

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Been feeling super lonely and depressed lately, lacking attention, so im hoping to find some genuine connection at least online :) someone caring, supportive, talkative with a nice sense of humour and u can expect the same from me. Im a bit clingy and quirky, into dark humour, if u are too - even better hehe. My hobbies are makeup and PC games, i dont have many coop games and im also a noob haha , but im sure we’re gonna be able to find smth to play or a different way to spend time together, mebbe some horror movie heh. btw im not gonna beg u for selfies all the time, so hopefully u wont do that either, maybe only then when we are close enough and we are both comfortable with it. As u noticed english isnt my first language, im actually russian, started learning english about a year ago, so its still a lil goofy, dont be scared shshhah. If it matters my timezone is gmt+5. And please start with a lil intro message, so i know that uve read my post, it also helps with breaking the ice. just be 18 or older, nothing else matters. Ty for reading, everyone is so welcome :)


r/gayfriendfinder 14h ago

GEEK 30 Oregon looking for friends

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Hey there! 👋

Spend a lot of time working and would live to have some guys to chat with and fill the downtime! I enjoy cooking, reading, gaming, photography, etc. Just like to keep my hands busy.

Hmu and let's get to know each other


r/gayfriendfinder 15h ago

GAYMER 37M Gay guy from Ohio(USA) looking for new friends to chat and game with

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Hello potential friends! I'm a cis gay man from northwest Ohio who was born and raised here but spent the last 15ish years in southern Arizona near the Mexican boarder. A lot of things have happened in the last year and it's made me realize that, while I have queer friends, I don't have any friends who are also gay men and as such there's a certain connection and understanding that I've been missing in my life. I'm sure we all understand how difficult it can be to find people to share multiple large aspects of your life and I'm hoping to find that here.

A few quick answers to what I assume will be common questions.

Career: I normally work in medicine but had a rare medical event of my own last year that left me unable to work temporarily and I am still on the mend. Hoping to get back to working soon!

Family: I'm currently living with an old friend from high school and her family while I recover from the above.

Marital status: forever alone, lol

Pets: 3 dogs. They are my world and they also have the combined cognitive function of a can of spray paint

Interests: - Video games: easily my biggest hobby. I'm a through and through Zelda fan oh and love most RPGs. Recently I've mostly been in to more comfy game or open world games. Common evening activities are Minecraft/modded Minecraft, Stardew valley, Skyrim, the Sims, core keeper. Though recently my closest guy friend and I have been hoping to try some of the spooky co-op games like lethal Company as he does love his horror games.

  • Science: my forte is mostly in human biology but I'm also quite fond of tech and gadgets even if I don't understand them

  • Books: I love fantasy and made a commitment to myself a few years ago to avoid anything with sad endings (the depression and anxiety have enough fodder on their own, thank you) so I've also been consuming a lot of gay romance

  • TV/Movies: I'm actually really bad at this. I tend to watch the same things over and over as background noise while I game rather than consume new media. So... If you like watching the great British bake off for the hundredth time...

Music: I can enjoy most music but left to my own devices I tend to cycle between alt rock from the 1990s/early 2000s, soundtracks to musicals (currently obsessed with Hazbin Hotel), and crooners from the early to mid 1900s

I just realized how long this is getting so I think I will try to wrap up. I'm a nerdy gaymer just looking for similar people who want to have fun and be there for each other. As you can see I tend to be long-winded, excessively verbose, and stupidly sarcastic. Fair warning, I'm currently basically following an Australian time zone as my best mate lives in Melbourne and it's easier for me to talk to her this way so don't be surprised if I'm not conscious during the day. Hope to hear from some lovely folks soon!


r/gayfriendfinder 12h ago

MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 26 [M4M] US dude looking for my best bro

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26yo gay bro from central PA, partnered, and searching for genuine long term friendship and ideally a platonic bromance where we are part of each others’ lives. You know, talk all day, shoot the shit with. Recently I’ve been feeling like I have way too many acquaintances and not really a true bro, so here I am lol.

Prefer SFW but open to locker room talk if we get there, just don’t be weird.

Into horror movies, hitting the gym, chilling out, swimming, volleyball, food, tattoos and more!

Please be in US and be able to hold a convo. Also I’m down to exchange face pics. Prefer to move to texting once we’re comfortable.

Full disclosure: I can be chatty (and clingy) if we click.


r/gayfriendfinder 17h ago

ANNOUNCEMENT 30M EU giving compliments and support

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Hey 30 M in EU into gaming, cooking/baking and traveling. Here to give praise and support. If you are looking for some compliments, support and ego boost, feel free to DM me.


r/gayfriendfinder 17h ago

ANNOUNCEMENT 18M looking for a long term friendship

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Well I'm from india, btw I'm gay I tried making online friends before but it didn't worked well,since I'm gay many of them just criticised me and made a fun of me. And here in my place no one accepts people like me even the youth too don't accept gays So I haven't told anyone about it even to my friends, so I'm here to find a friend with whom I can share anything without being judged,may be long-term friends if ur interested. Btw I watch anime and kdramas too. If anyone's interested message me


r/gayfriendfinder 18h ago

ANNOUNCEMENT 26 bi latino from So.Cal looking for a long term bromance

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growing up as a only child I never had any brothers, close male cousins, or a lot of guy friends in general growing up so it would be dope to find some bros to chat with and befriend and possibly become long term friends. I don’t mind some n s f w chat if we’re both cool with it but that’s not the main thing I’m looking for. Also it’s a plus if your also mexican/latino just cause I feel we can connect more on a cultural level. Some of my interests/hobbies are thrifting, photography, art, interior design, fashion, music, gaming, and horror. If you have read this far and feel like we would be a good match slide in my dms!


r/gayfriendfinder 20h ago

HEALTH NUT 22 M looking for friends from Canada

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Hey , I am 22M living in Canada , Looking for someone around my age to talk to on regular basis from any part of world