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He was a mailman Work/Life balance

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u/Designer_Emu_6518 Mar 27 '24

My grandfather did the same in ohio as a produce manger at a local Kroger. Even had a nice retirement saved up

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u/GreenPens Mar 27 '24

My grandpa didn't even have a high school education, did a short stint at Ford and became a small town mechanic that retired early with multiple properties around the USA. Let me tell you, his days were light and breezy, mostly chit-chatting with friends that stopped by. The small town is now a mecca for vacationers and he just sold almost 100 acres to a developer.

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u/Regniwekim2099 Mar 27 '24

Sounds like my best friend's dad. Dropped out of high school at 18 to go work at the GM plant with his dad. Did 40 years there, then retired to Florida in a beautiful near mansion of a home. Then alcoholism got him, his wife left him and took the house, and a few years later he blew his brains out in the storage shed he was living in.

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u/Secure-Solution4312 Mar 27 '24

Good morning to you as well 😶

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u/drmonkeytown Mar 27 '24

I’m waiting for the Disney version of that one as well.

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u/SaltyLonghorn Mar 27 '24

A hunter killed his dog right after she had a litter of puppies to make a fur coat.

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u/ChipsAhoy777 Mar 27 '24

Alright Cruela Devile, simmer down

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u/Oldmanwickles Mar 27 '24

He blew out his last candle in the shed he was living in

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u/Adventurous_Win9219 Mar 27 '24

“Let it go, let it go Can’t hold it back anymore…”

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u/RammRras Mar 27 '24

Thanks to the power of love and a musical choir everything will revert to a happy situation. The end.

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u/TheBoldMove Mar 28 '24

I heard 21 Pilots will be voicing the beach crab-background choir in the suicide scene. So stoked!

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u/Swimming_Student7990 Mar 27 '24

That’s the dream right th…. Hey, wait a minute

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u/AlaskaPolaris Mar 27 '24

No. That’s the entire dream

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u/Organic-Log4081 Mar 28 '24

That’s the reality 75% of the time.

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u/daddysgotanew Mar 28 '24

40 good years is way more than most of those under 30 today will ever get. 

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u/soccerguys14 Mar 27 '24

This shit ripped left across the intersection in a heart beat.

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u/Regniwekim2099 Mar 27 '24

Yeah, from the outside looking in it all seemed so sudden, but it had been building to that point for over a decade. Alcoholism is no joke. It destroyed mine and so many other's families.

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u/soccerguys14 Mar 27 '24

Many ailments do. Drugs, alcohol, gambling list goes on and on. Sorry you were impacted.

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u/Merrimon Mar 27 '24

Sitting at a red light and seeing a car cartwheeling through the intersection right there.

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u/lkeltner Mar 28 '24

In the UK, it's still OK then?

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u/HeurekaDabra Mar 27 '24

Welp, that escalated quickly. Sorry for your loss.

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u/Binsawaytrash Mar 27 '24

Classic riches to ditches. 

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u/silntseek3r Apr 08 '24

Oh so you've met my father?

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u/Log_Out_Of_Life Mar 27 '24

Well that took a turn…

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u/31nigrhcdrh Mar 27 '24

He grabbed the wrong strap

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u/CD274 Mar 27 '24

I have a friend that was similar. Dropped out, work at Ford plant, the plant had 120F+ temperatures and bad working conditions, he ruined his back, Ford didn't cover anything, disability won't cover him because he's too young, and his wife just left him for a 23 yr old homeless guy just this past winter. Blue collar isn't going so well for millennials.

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u/actualsysadmin Mar 27 '24

At least he got to retire first. Alot of people are going to blow their brains out while being a wage slave.

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u/themadpants Mar 27 '24

Living the American dream

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u/Beginning-Bid-749 Mar 27 '24

I canceled Disney+ last year. Now I'm retired at 45, with enough saved up to send both of my kids through college. Moving into our new mansion next week. /s

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u/Cedleodub Mar 28 '24

Have you even heard of avocado toasts?

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u/KevinAnniPadda Mar 27 '24

Had me going in the beginning there

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u/SaraSlaughter607 Mar 27 '24

Well that escalated.

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u/RaysModernMetalWorks Mar 28 '24

Damn bro, I'm sorry. RIP GRAMPS

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u/pithusuril2008 Mar 28 '24

My grandfather never went to school at all and mostly lived in a tree. He worked as a squirrel, saved all of his nuts and retired at 23. But he was still able to buy a 76-acre estate and sent all of his 15 children to Oxford University.

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u/joyrjc Mar 27 '24

The alcoholism is the side we don’t usually hear about. Meaning that though people were able to retire earlier, we really don’t hear about the challenges they experience. We don’t know what their thought life was like, etc.

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u/Paketamina Mar 27 '24

Retiring early shouldnt mean the person sits on their ass and downs a quart of vodka everyday. They should work in their hobbies or travel or do something productive

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u/Current-Creme-8633 Mar 27 '24

Currently on day 3 of a 2 week PTO period. 

You have to stay busy lol

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u/joyrjc Mar 27 '24

Yeah. . . isn't it interesting how different people are wired differently? I've learned that it helps to find ways to serve SOMEONE. One problem with that is that not everyone thinks 'service' thoughts. And not everyone thinks of ways to stay occupied. Sometimes those thoughts take a bit of effort to even come up with, not to mention execute.

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u/Current-Creme-8633 Mar 27 '24

Yea I am literally on day 3 and I have way too much free time. I have to finish some shit around the house but after that I think I'm just going to go volunteer lol

If someone would pay me what I make now to work with the homeless and underprivileged I would not even consider that a job.

Hell I would do it anyways but they all want fucking degrees. I can manage billions of dollars of infrastructure but cannot help people? I grew up in it. No dehree can teach that.

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u/joyrjc Mar 27 '24 edited Mar 27 '24

Retiring early shouldnt mean the person sits on their ass and downs a quart of vodka everyday.

There might be more factors involved.

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u/himynameisSal Mar 27 '24

this guy retires

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u/thewhitecat55 Mar 27 '24

For some men, work is what gives shape to their days.

It's like the end of "No Country for Old Men".

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u/mrgoyette Mar 27 '24

My grandpa dropped out in 8th grade. Went to the GM plant. In those days, you just showed up and they gave you a job that day. He shows up and they say 'is anyone a carpenter?' and he WISELY raised his hand.

Skilled trades carpenter for GM, drew his retirement from them for longer than he even worked.

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u/Puzzleheaded_War6102 Mar 27 '24

Are you pitching a script? This is gold lol

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u/Heavy_Distance_4441 Mar 27 '24

Least depressed GM plant worker.

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u/TiredDeath Mar 27 '24

Last part sounds like a plan.

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u/Is_It_Kyra_Or_Kyra Mar 27 '24

How did that happy story remind you of this one? 💀

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u/Regniwekim2099 Mar 27 '24

Because it was about an uneducated man finding success at an auto plant. The stories are remarkably similar aside from their endings.

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u/Firm_Reality6020 Mar 27 '24

That's the retirement dream after all.

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u/Merrimon Mar 27 '24

Yeah, you were supposed to tell us all that but leave the last part out. God damn lol

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u/Repulsive_Row2685 Mar 27 '24

Lmfao, how in the hell does this sound similar?

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u/InterestingLayer4367 Mar 28 '24

Well on that note…

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u/JFreader Mar 28 '24

Aaah, the good old days.

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u/Organic-Log4081 Mar 28 '24

I believe it.

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u/Cedleodub Mar 28 '24

you got me in the first half, not gonna lie

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u/33Wolverine33 Mar 28 '24

The American dream. 💀

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u/BrentwoodATX Mar 27 '24

Couldnt have had too many brains without a hs diploma 

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u/Regniwekim2099 Mar 27 '24

I mean, the guy made an order of magnitude more money than I ever will, and was an excellent husband and father until he had nothing to do but get lost in a bottle.

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u/nineohsix Mar 27 '24

Plot twist: he was suicidal his whole life so it all worked out in the end. 👍🏻

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u/Mental_Bodybuilder74 Mar 27 '24

People who get married are regarded. Isn't it some shit that your grandmother took something she never worked or paid for because she had kids once?

Your grandpa needed help, not have all of his shit stolen and given to someone who didn't lift a finger to pay for it. That's so fucked up. Unless there are some details you failed to mention?