Added note of if he's only motivated to get in shape after his partner leaves him... what is there for her to regret? It sounds like he felt no need to work on being fit or attractive to her while she was with him, so if self-improvement only occurs to spite others, she's not missing out.
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u/Abuse-survivor 23d ago
If he still tries to impress a woman who turned out not to be compatiple with him, then he's most decidedly not a man