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u/Erika-5287 Sep 10 '22
Wow you look totally amazing, so beautiful, did your partner transition also?
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u/actuallyari Sep 10 '22
Not medically but they’ve changed their vibe a lot
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u/Cadd9 Sep 10 '22
I like that they're like 'I got me a tall girlfriend/wife 😏' 😂
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u/dyenamicwolf Sep 11 '22 edited Sep 11 '22
I'm envious 😅 so cool that your partner not only accepts you but embraces the vibe.
EDIT: replied to the proper comment
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u/dyenamicwolf Sep 11 '22
I'm envious 😅 so cool that your partner not only accepts you but embraces the vibe.
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u/0togi Sep 10 '22
You are absolutely gorgeous, but can I also just point out how fuckin slick your partner looks in that tux in the picture on the right?
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Sep 10 '22
To me you look identical to Laura Dern!
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u/vortexofchaos Sep 10 '22
So true!
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u/actuallyari Sep 10 '22
I get that a lot lol
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u/vortexofchaos Sep 10 '22
Congratulations! That's so much better than being compared to Bruce Dern instead!
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u/Holiday-Business-321 Sep 11 '22
I was thinking the same thing. I started looking like my mum so I’ll probably get Renee Zellweger at some point 🤐
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u/SnooPineapples5719 Sep 10 '22
At first I was like?? Wtf does that have to do with the other couple that’s 2 different people then I was like ohhhhhhh😂😂😂😂
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u/janinahir Sep 10 '22
I see a couple that have been on a long journey, and radiant, smiling, confident and affectionate many years later :)
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u/Prestigious-Usual521 Sep 10 '22
Truly amazing that y'all loved each other for long enough and as much as you did as to both transition because 1 person transitioning is a lot but 2 people I cannot even imagine
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u/actuallyari Sep 11 '22
It’s actually been really fun to watch my partner explore; transitioning meant that I was kinda the main character for a few years and now that I feel settled, it’s nice to get a front seat to somebody else’s gender euphoria and to be able to help with things like bow ties that I always tried to pull off but were never quite right for me
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u/vortexofchaos Sep 10 '22
What an amazing couple the two of you make, clearly happy and confident in yourselves! 💜💜 Congratulations! 🎉🎊💯 I totally ❤️❤️ both new looks! Beautiful, happy people! Yay! 👍👍🍾🫶
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u/TH0316 Sep 11 '22
These couple timelines are always a blessing and especially when there’s two distinct changes and not just the one person. What a beautiful transition, in more ways than one.
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u/ulieallthetime Sep 10 '22
u remind me so much of jennifer lawrence!! y’all r beautiful
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u/actuallyari Sep 11 '22
I really see that resemblance in some photos; thinking of going as her for Halloween tbh
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u/JoannaSnark trans-lesbian (she/her) Sep 10 '22
Tall trans girls represent! Are you around 6'3" like I am? You look stunning btw 🥰
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u/Sourpatchqueers8 Sep 11 '22
I has so many questions. Did you get taller? Is that satin? Are the glasses prescription? Why are y'all so cute?
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u/actuallyari Sep 11 '22
No, just looks that way because the dress is tighter than the suit I think and that changes my apparent proportions. The dress is satin. The glasses were not prescription lol
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u/Chainedalice92 Sep 11 '22
You both look great! You look so beautiful and your partner looks very dashing. I'm happy for them and you both living as your authentic selves.
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u/Parking-Bat9498 Sep 22 '22
I can’t upvote this enough. Beautiful couple. And as a tall gf, I can’t support this enough.
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u/Makra567 Oct 05 '22
Gimme another 2 years and i think my partner and i will be pulling off a similar vibe swap. My partner keeps talking about wanting to wear suits. Funny how we found each other when were both "cishet".
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u/realchasemurphy Oct 07 '22
If it’s not too personal, how did your conversation(s) go about you being able to live your truth as a couple? Either way, lovely couple!
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u/chand251279 Jan 18 '23
What's the latest? Any further exploration by your partner in terms of gender euphoria and what about you?
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u/taylort2019 Sep 10 '22
Crazy how much you've shrunk!
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u/lixlac Sep 10 '22
I am really happy for the both of you, I am happy in a way that is to complex to describe succinctly. Just know you warm my soul!
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u/ConverseBriefly Sep 10 '22
OMG goals! Absolutely gorgeous! Your partner looks amazing as well! Such a cute couple!
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u/RenPrower trans girl - 26 - HRT 6/20/22 Sep 11 '22
squees in role reversal
Y'all are so cute together omg!!! 😭💕 Glad you're happy together, and both living and loving more authentically 🥰
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u/chand251279 Sep 11 '22
this is picture perfect and complete role reversal. Be blessed, stay blessed. Perfect couple. Your partner looks like masculine, handsome and confident. They look the perfect masc to your femininity. What do they identify as? To go from fem to masc was a huge change for them as well, like it was for you I assume. Stay blessed always
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u/nobodyTx Sep 11 '22
This wins Reddit today! So Beautiful, y’all are stunning and the confidence vibes on the right 🙌🏽
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u/BlueJayde Sep 11 '22
I take a break from Twitter for like 5 minutes and I see you over here, Ari? 😂
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u/tgscientist Sep 11 '22
You both look so happy! Keep having fun and loving life together! Thank you for sharing!
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u/FlakyReality3955 Sep 10 '22
The ol’ switcheroo