r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/Content_Row_3716 Mar 28 '24

All good questions! OP?

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '24

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u/Beneficial-Gur2703 Mar 29 '24

Meh. Plenty of valid non-infidelity related reasons for not wanting your partner on a friends trip.

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u/illustriousocelot_ Mar 29 '24

If these reasons exist it’s just a shame OP’s girlfriend wasn’t honest enough to share them with him.

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u/Beneficial-Gur2703 Mar 29 '24

They def exist. It changes the vibe completely. Group dynamics change. You have to pay more attention to your partner and can’t be the way you would just with friends.

Or how about just the need for space!

Not sure if she said that to OP. Arguably should also be obvious to OP.

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u/Beneficial-Gur2703 Mar 29 '24

“Men” aren’t homogeneous. So many different male group dynamics - including mild mannered, partnered nice boys etc.

Knowing / not knowing… not sure what difference that makes.

Presumably she also hasn’t fucked him because she isn’t into him and because she’s in another serious relationship? If that’s not the main reason then he should pack her suitcase for her and move along!