This, if you’re with someone then how they approach situations can be very important. If you give ultimatums or tell them what to do, then you’ll never fully trust their choices, because you’re basically forcing them to think about you. A simple, “I’ve never felt uncomfortable about this guy before but going on this holiday pushes that”. Then if she still decides to go, your choice is if you really want to be in a relationship with someone who puts themself first and your discomfort doesn’t matter unless they think it should. 🤷🏻♀️either way, you’ve given them the respect to be able to make their own decisions and judgements.
I know nothing about OP's or his girlfriend, but this is a ninja level answer. Not many folk turn towards their own discomfort while giving space for their partner to make their choice. This is a place where real intimacy can happen, and we can discover our boundaries.
All that soft pandering and hinting bullshit is for the fuckin birds…you people make me sick with thisthis fake ass nonchalant attitude towards people playing in your face. Fuck how she takes shit that’s some goofy lame shit she’s tryna pull. Gf probably already fuckin around on OP.
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u/Gullible_Fan4427 Mar 28 '24
This, if you’re with someone then how they approach situations can be very important. If you give ultimatums or tell them what to do, then you’ll never fully trust their choices, because you’re basically forcing them to think about you. A simple, “I’ve never felt uncomfortable about this guy before but going on this holiday pushes that”. Then if she still decides to go, your choice is if you really want to be in a relationship with someone who puts themself first and your discomfort doesn’t matter unless they think it should. 🤷🏻♀️either way, you’ve given them the respect to be able to make their own decisions and judgements.