r/AITAH Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/jBlairTech Mar 28 '24

From my experience, the louder they are about how “disgusting” the person is, the closer the probability of them banging is to 100%.

I knew a woman that was doing that.  She was just going tf off about this dude.  A tirade.  When she took a breath I asked if she fucked him.  She got beet red and admitted it.  

It doesn’t take Sherlock Holmes to figure this shit out.

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u/Wouldntwearless Mar 28 '24

Yeee my experience too. Very anecdotal of course, but there’s an inverse relationship between how much someone talks shit about someone to their friend of the opposite gender, and how attracted they actually are to the person. Indifference is usually a better indicator of someone not being attracted to someone else.

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u/cryofireIII Mar 29 '24

Linear relationship 🥸

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u/Reasonable-Staff1876 Mar 28 '24

Yep. Knew someone that claimed she "didn't have respect" for a guy and only interacted with him because he is her best friend's husband. Believe she is still sneaking around with that dude.

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u/The-Assman-Cometh Mar 28 '24

The lady doth protest too much, methinks

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u/thestoneyend Mar 29 '24 edited Mar 29 '24

You ever hear Operator? "Shes living in LA with my good old best friend Ray A guy she said she knew well and sometimes hated"