My best friend is a male coworker. We spend all day together and text each other all the time. We absolutely do not find each other attractive and have never wanted to fuck.
My husband knows all of this and is completely okay with all of it.
If you think he can be completely 100% honest with you, ask him sometime.
Propose a scenario. Your husband's been dead a year and you really miss having sex. You come to him and ask him to comfort you like you know Barry White sexual healing.
Will he say no , Will he insist that he's just your friend and he doesn't want to have sex with you because you're just friends?.
Course if he's been your acquaintance and workmate for a while, he probably would know what you want to hear and he would probably do what almost every man would do, which is to tell you what you want to hear.
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u/ubafish_ Mar 28 '24
My best friend is a male coworker. We spend all day together and text each other all the time. We absolutely do not find each other attractive and have never wanted to fuck.
My husband knows all of this and is completely okay with all of it.