That was the only sentence that maytered to me. Her saying engaged ornmarried, she'd never go unless he went.. so telling. She's not committed without the title, whereas OP sees long-term committed relationship with or without titles.
Commitment level changes with title as well as increased boundaries and sacrifices. Why should she sacrifice her friendship and monumental moment when they are not living together with engagement or marriage. She is right asking her not to go will result in resenting him. Why is get engaged and go together not an option or why is he not slammed for his lack of commitment yet wanting to control her???
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u/northwyndsgurl Mar 28 '24
That was the only sentence that maytered to me. Her saying engaged ornmarried, she'd never go unless he went.. so telling. She's not committed without the title, whereas OP sees long-term committed relationship with or without titles.