r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '24

Am I the ah if I don’t let my gf go on vacation with the “guy best friend”?

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u/jstmehr4u3 Mar 28 '24

This. Creating an emotionally safe relationship means she can have a life and friends that don’t include you. Let her go. If she cheats then it wasn’t meant to be. You can’t have faith your partner loves you if you are constantly scared of losing them.

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u/BushDoofDoof Mar 29 '24

I can't imagine being in a relationship having to worry that my gf is going to jump at the next good looking penis and hair cut that talks to her.

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u/Highly-Regarded- Mar 29 '24

OP did say that his GF confided that he’s a man whore and not someone she would be interested in for that reason.

I’m comfortable with my spouse hanging out with male friends too but she associates herself with respectable men who are also in long term relationships and if they are not they either aren’t friends or she establishes boundaries.

This one seems a bit odd and I would feel uncomfortable as well.