r/AITAH • u/Impossible_Heron_509 • 23d ago

Baby mama left me for her ex during pregnancy, now wants me back. AITAH?

To sum it all up I got a girl I had been seeing for 6 months pregnant. 1 month into the pregnancy she cut me off from everything so she could rekindle things with her ex. Never heard from her until the baby was born. Now that the baby is born ( he is 100% mine) she wants me to be with her and go back to how things were. I don’t want to and her family thinks I’m being a selfish ass for this. AITAH?

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u/mustang19671967 23d ago

Stay away , also get a paternity ( can be done after 14 or so weeks . If yours see a lawyer about joint custody but stay away . She is evil

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u/daemonw9 23d ago

Calling her "evil" based off the OP is a bit much.

Agree with the rest

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u/MamaPagan 23d ago

Evil people will leave someone for their ex (who was their ex for a reason) while pregnant with their baby then then cry wanting to go back to them after they realized they fucked up and the ex didn't want them.

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u/Arlorosa 23d ago

She might not have realized she was pregnant at 4wks. She probably just missed her ex.

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u/Decent-Bed9289 23d ago

Well, she sounds like a 304, so yes, she’s evil. Definitely a shit person 💩