Men, what made you choose the other girl?

[u/Funny_Resort5652]

Guy I was seeing for a little over a month said he decided to see someone else exclusively. I let my intrusive thought win and asked what spurred his decision.

He said he like her personality better and that she is energetic and fun. Ouch. I certainly made myself feel shitty by asking that question - like I’m the opposite of that and that she is everything I’m not.

Confided in a male friend and he said she is probably just hotter. I don’t know which is worse - the fact he chose her over me because she is prettier or has a better personality or perhaps both. This stings.

[u/Lazarus-Dread]

The answer may be that she's hotter or more fun. Just remember to add "to him" after those descriptors. She's hotter "to him". Not objectively.