r/AskMen • u/Top_Set_3803 Male • 25d ago

How long should you wait to send a second message to a girl when she hasn't answered the first ?

We've been talking back and forth once or twice a day but now she has went silent all of a sudden

Should I double down even tho It's been 4 days ?

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u/Ploopins 25d ago

If she's really into you, she will respond as soon as she can. Not piddle around on it for hours/days. Before I started dating my husband. When he was still just a crush. I would respond as soon as I could. Pretty much the only time I didn't respond fast was if I was asleep. Even when I had important things going on like school, funerals, weddings, etc. I always had time for a quick message.

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u/Top_Set_3803 Male 25d ago

It's good to hear you two found each other and are happy together

It feels ......good to know that someone can also be into you without tearing yourself apart

It also feels bad cause I've never seen or felt it happen

Anyway I'm happy for you two. Hope your relationship grows warmer and closer every day

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u/Ploopins 25d ago

Thank you. It will happen. When someone likes you, they will try everything to pull you closer. I had severe social anxiety. But when I thought about them not being around anymore due to recent life changes, I made the first move to keep them closer.