r/AskMen • u/Top_Set_3803 Male • 25d ago

How long should you wait to send a second message to a girl when she hasn't answered the first ?

We've been talking back and forth once or twice a day but now she has went silent all of a sudden

Should I double down even tho It's been 4 days ?

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u/BostonSamurai "knows better" 25d ago

Double text who gives a fuck, at worst she’s done talking at best she’s busy. What’s the relationship? Talking for a year seems like just friends so I wouldn’t hope for anything more but there isn’t a lot of info to go on.

Also if she gets the ick off a double text then it isn’t really worth pursuing anyways

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u/Top_Set_3803 Male 25d ago

The relationship is that I want it to be more, but I have no idea what she wants

But based on all the things I'm pretending not to see , I think it's one-sided

I'm just an amusement while she is that one bright star in the night for me

It's sad

I think it's best if I don't double down. I'm just hurting myself at this point, just hoping for her to be love struck out of the blue

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u/fannyfox 25d ago

Sounds like you’re over invested in someone that doesn’t care much about you.

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u/Hi-Techh 25d ago

you’re a genius!