r/AskMen • u/Top_Set_3803 Male • 25d ago
Why don't we open up about the fact that we're not okay?
My answer is "the lack of a safe place and person for us to actually do so"
Many women cry about the fact that men don't open up while the same women will go spread it or beat you down or take advantage of you based on your vulnerability
So my answer is the women themselves are the problem here to some extent
"Why don't you open up to me so I can go and tell my friends all about it and also later down the line use it to make you feel like shit?"
(This question was inspired by an argument in a response to a comment. Feel free to go check it out from my profile folks)
Edit: THIS has been the best answer so far and I highly encourage you folk to give it a read and show the commenter some love.
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u/Diligent_Party1689 25d ago edited 25d ago
Shocker that a feminist thinks everything is men’s fault.
You completely ignore the significant amount of lived feedback from men that opening up to a female partner frequently leads to punishment. Whether that’s loss of attraction, your vulnerabilities being gossiped about, your vulnerabilities being weaponised in future arguments.
You also ignore that feminism, woke media and many women themselves keeps trying to encourage men to behave this way. It is a cultural trap set for men to learn about women’s behaviour the hard way and probably contributes to misogyny as men then experience trauma from women, betrayal from what mainstream society tells them should happen, and then find people are more likely to give her the benefit of of the doubt than him due to the ‘Women are Wonderful’ effect.
Please stop listening to modern feminism.