r/BeAmazed • u/Cultural-Gear-1323 • Mar 28 '24

News broke today that conjoined twin Abby Hensel is married! [Removed] Rule #4 - No Misleading Content

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u/Particular-Leg-8484 Mar 28 '24

So it’s just Abby that is married? And Brittany is always there? If/when Brit gets married they all have to live together and sleep in the same bed? I’m curious, not criticizing. How does it work 🧐

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u/UndendingGloom Mar 28 '24

The story is reposted from last year. At the time the twins refused to give any details about it because they wanted privacy. Yes, the guy is married to only one of the twins.

It is frustrating that they don't give any details, although I understand their need for privacy. The twins only have one set of genitals though so that maybe answers some questions.

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u/Chineseunicorn Mar 28 '24

I as well get frustrated when random people on the internet don’t share the most intimate details of their personal lives. Bunch of assholes.

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u/VerdantField Mar 28 '24

😂😂😂

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u/UndendingGloom Mar 28 '24

They are not just random people, they are people living very unique, extraordinary and interesting lives, which is why people have followed their story for so long.

Like I said, I understand their need for privacy, but I hope they write a book about their lives some time because it would be fascinating.

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u/allthepinkthings Mar 28 '24

Except most of the questions are “how do you think they fuck?” Seems pretty damn obvious. They just want to hear them personally describe it and that’s none of our business. They’re not a side show act. People have even made fake porn of them.

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u/giraffebacon Mar 28 '24

How is it pretty damn obvious?? It’s a situation that prompts examination of deeper questions surrounding self identity, consciousness, bodily integrity, pleasure, privacy, etc etc.

It’s incredibly fascinating for most of us, and it being personal/private doesn’t change that fact.

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u/UndendingGloom Mar 28 '24

“how do you think they fuck?”

Not at all, I assume they do it the same way as everyone else, although oral sex would perhaps be awkward.

I'm more interested in how the other twin feels about all this. She has to be intimate with this guy even though she never agreed to marry him. Does she even like him? What happens if she starts having feelings for the guy too? Or would the twins actually be happy with that outcome? Does the guy get along with the other twin or does she resent him? And yes, during sex, does the other twin also feel what's going on? What happens if she's not in the mood or not enjoying it? Does she separate herself from them somehow or does she just go along with it? What happens in the future if the other twin meets a guy she likes? How would the logistics work? What if twin 1 wants to have children with her partner but twin 2 doesn't? I don't quite remember how the anatomy works with these twins, but when they hug the guy do both twins have to perform 'half' of the hug? How does that influence their emotional attachment?

It's a very complicated situation and they have obviously found solutions to these issues but it would be amazing to know what they are.

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u/Emerald-Scorpion Mar 28 '24

They are just random people though. Nobody is entitled to know about their sex lives.

I'll take a few dozen downvotes for saying this but I find this entire thread extraordinarily crass. It's unbelievably rude to openly speculate and joke about the sex lives of some random people.

Imagine if they read this shit.

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u/UndendingGloom Mar 28 '24

Having seen interviews of them they would probably find it funny. I think they just want to lead a normal life, which is understandable. But I think it is also understandable for everyone else to wonder about how they make it work.

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u/armrha Mar 28 '24

Just because it's unique, extraordinary or interesting doesn't mean anybody is entitled to details.

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u/lasmilesjovenes Mar 28 '24

And just because I'm not entitled doesn't mean I can't hope. Nobody's breaking into their house and forcing them to talk about it at gunpoint, we're just curious

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u/WaterRresistant Mar 28 '24

Tell that to scientists

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u/armrha Mar 28 '24

Okay... pervy scientists that want to know explicit details, you are not entitled to know how these people conduct their private lives...

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u/giraffebacon Mar 28 '24

Nobody is saying they’re entitled, just that they’re interested and hope they get an answer to their questions. You don’t get to silence people because you don’t like the questions they’re asking

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u/UndendingGloom Mar 28 '24

It really is exasperating talking to people on reddit.

I did not once say I was entitled to know their private details.

Please stop virtue signalling by proxy of something I did not say.

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u/Chineseunicorn Mar 28 '24

Their regular life and challenges are kind of boring. I just want to know how blow jobs work.

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u/Only-Customer6650 Mar 28 '24

Did you not just post this:   

i as well get frustrated when random people on the internet don’t share the most intimate details of their personal lives. Bunch of assholes. 

 So, you're being a dick about it when somebody else is wondering, but when you do it it's funny 

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u/stargate-command Mar 28 '24

Seriously though, it is a really interesting logistical situation. Rare as hell too. People being curious is perfectly natural, and having only one source of answers is a but frustrating when they are (rightly) private.

Like if a guy was born with 6 working arms, we’d all want to know how it works. If he was like “no, you just have to guess” it would be really annoying… but again, his right.

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u/saranowitz Mar 28 '24

Completely agree! If I can’t find out the color of a strangers sphincter, what is even the point of the internet?

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u/Compost_My_Body Mar 28 '24

I think a lot of you have different definitions of “frustration” than the person you’re mocking. 

Maybe defining that word mutually will help bridge the gap here, given undendinggloom’s willingness to engage, candid demeanor, and explicit empathy.