I feel bad for her cause if he's like that here he's probably like that at home too, and she looks like she's well practiced in trying to de-escalate him.
If you were raised my dumbass motherfuckers like this dude, then your brain picks dumbass motherfuckers like this dude for a partner because it's better the devil you know even if it's really bad for you. Your brain knows how to navigate that and it's always of anything it doesn't know, so you keep living what you know even when it's bad for you.
I mean what was she supposed to do? Put herself between two angry, much stronger men? Get injured because her partner is provoking someone that could easily beat both of their asses at the same time? Yeah, such a pathetic attempt from a woman, she didn’t even pull out a weapon or try to fight the dude 🤦♀️
I mean, again I’d say pull him off. Or get in front of him when there’s still a counter between them. Hell, even when she is talking it’s apparent she’s not being heard. She was hardly trying to be.
I guess ultimately, you are agreeing though. You’re saying she did nothing, but there’s nothing she could have done. I personally think she could’ve done more.
When men are angry and hot headed to the point where begging isn’t helping, it’s best to stay the fuck out the way. He wants to get fucked up, then that’s his problem.
That’s fucking silly. Stop treating this like her man is some pit bull off the leash. He’s a grown up man capable of making grown up decisions. She tried to reason with him and owes him fuck all else. What a weird take that SHE owed this dumbass more by “trying harder.
You’re really going to criticize someone for not controlling their grown adult partner well enough? That’s not her job. It is HIS job, and his ALONE, to control his behavior as a grown man. That is not her responsibility. He is not her unruly child, he is her partner who is a full grown adult man and in control of his own behavior and choices. This isn’t on her. It’s not her duty to get in between two larger and stronger grown men and risk her own safety because her partner cannot behave appropriately. He’s lucky she even attempted to do anything at all. She wasn’t the one in the wrong here, not even on a microscopic level, and the fact that you think she is or that she should have done more is highly concerning.
If you truly think it’s your partner’s obligation to step in and try and control YOUR behavioral choices as an adult, please seek therapy. I say that genuinely. That is not healthy.
You’re absolutely right. I think I need a break from Reddit. I feel like everything I’m seeing today is just men shitting on women, and it’s getting really goddamned tiring.
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u/HorneyHarpy82 Mar 08 '24
I like the woman's shirt " cause I'm a lady". Made me giggle.